Hello everyone.
I have been lurking this forum for some time, and first of all, I just want to say thanks to everyone for contributing to this forum. This is a goldmine for newbies like me. I kinda feel worried because this forum is so great, and that I could get some heavy competition from other guys.
Anyway, here is my deal. I have met a nice 8, and I think she is testing me out quite seriously, or even worse, she could be a female player...
The story goes like this:
I met this girl at a new year's party. We had a laugh, talked about many things, and I did some kino, as far as I can tell she was attracted to me. She was always trying to get my attention when I was talking with other girls and guys, touching me, etc and when I left, she gave me a kiss on the cheek.
But after the party, I had to leave the city for 2 weeks. During these 2 weeks she was sending me several emails and text messages talking to me about different things.
When I got back last Saturday (16th Jan), I called her and asked her out. The conversation went like this:
Me: Hi, what's up
Her: Hi, blabla bla bla bla bla
Me: Hey, look, my plans have changed, and I got a bit of free time on Monday's afternoon, how about we go and have a coffee?
Her: (this where it starts): Wow, I have been getting quite many invitations lately, it is kinda good feeling you know, but, yeah, I think I can make it.
Me: That's great! I'll call you on Monday.
From this conversation I kinda spotted the "wow I have been getting quite many invitations lately" part, and it felt like somekind of "test" or something.
Then I called her today to give her exact time and place where to meet. The conversation went like this:
Me: Hey, how it is going? (Took around 10-15 secs till she got the phone)
Her: Hey, sorry that I made you to wait, I am taking a shower right now.
Me: Well, don't bother getting dressed, I'll be right there.
Her: *laughs*
Me: So about that coffee, let's meet at 5pm
Her: Oh, I'm sorry, I can't make it then. I have some serious stuff to do. I can only make it during the noon, can you make it?
Me: Nah, I can't, got some things to do.
Her: Oh, well then let's have coffee some other day then.
Me: Alright, I'll call you tommorow.
Basically, from these two conversations I am suspicious that she is testing me.
I need some advice guys. Really. Don't know what to do next. Should I call her tommorow?
Best regards,
Kris.