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hb10 flaked on me :( why?
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Author:  slimsta [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 2:40 am ]
Post subject:  hb10 flaked on me :( why?
I met the really hot chick in my math class.. got her number, everything looked good.. she smiled, fixed her hair (which is an IOI), had good eye contact, and she agreed to go for coffee..
we set up a time and date through texting and she had all those smiles.. which shows IOI's.. and she answered normally, not like quick 2 words..

so today in the morning, she sent me a text saying, "hey hun, i dont feel very well and im not going to my morning class , see you in math tomorrow?"

i said, "its okay, i was planning to skip a class but ill just go to it. i actually feel kind of sick myself feel better and save me a seat tomorrow "
after i sent it, i was like FUCK! this is such AFC style.. like wtf is wrong with me.. and then after like 4-5 hours i texted her (from the gym lol) "I was thinking let go rob a bank, i need a partner..."

she said : "lol what..."
me: "seriously i need a partner, are you driving or shooting?"
her:''lol im driving"
me: "k, we are set. i hope you know how to drive :b, its on tomorrow during math class"

what should i do? i feel like i killed it
Author:  Slywalker [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 4:12 am ]
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You haven't really done anything wrong, sounds like she is still interested.

You just have to believe in yourself, be confident, stop rating girls (it fucks with your head), take her off the pedestal (she is just another girl)

And set up a new date! Just tell her you won't accept another flake this time, be a man!

Let me know if you have more questions!
Author:  slimsta [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 4:48 am ]
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my buddy suggested me to ignore her (not ignore but kind of not to react when she is around.. ) and flirt with other girls which will make her want me back.. keep it like this for good 2-3 days and then maybe text her or something.
what do you say?
Author:  kasabi [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 10:32 am ]
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my buddy suggested me to ignore her (not ignore but kind of not to react when she is around.. ) and flirt with other girls which will make her want me back.. keep it like this for good 2-3 days and then maybe text her or something.
what do you say?
Does your buddy have girls crawling all over him? I didn't think so . . .

Don't over think it and keep doing what you've been doing. What you wrote gives me the image of a nose guard who picks up a loose ball and begins to bumble his way to the end zone. The point is, you don't have to do everything by the unwritten code of the PUA. Just keep holding on to the ball and continue running.
Author:  Mister Boss [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 11:55 am ]
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From what I can tell, you're doing fine! Don't ignore her because of the "flake", that's just stupid. Don't feel offended, continue having fun and go for another meetup like Slywalker suggested.

Good luck,
Author:  QWR324QWD [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 2:41 am ]
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The best advice that was given to me in a similar situation is find other girls that capture your interest. This way you don't give her too much attention, which will make you think she has you hooked.
Author:  slimsta [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 5:02 am ]
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so today, i came late to class.. (the usual lol) and didnt bother looking around, just went straight to the front. after class she texted me "way not to come to class lol" and i replied after an hour "I knew you would be there "

I dont know if she got the "joke" but she never replied or anything.
one thing im stoked about is that she texted me

should i try come early, sit somewhere and hope she will come sit by me? or just come sit next to her when i come to class?
Author:  Elysium [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 5:10 am ]
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I just recently started posting more, but having read quite a bit, I would always take some advice from Slywalker, he seems to know his stuff!

Anyways, I wouldn't worry too much or overanalyze on the seating arrangement; you guys already text so sitting next to her is not a big deal in my humble, and newbie opinion.

I think that matters more is just the context and how your conversation flows, the IOIs she gives you and how you play it; you already established yourself as friendly with her.
Author:  swaggerboy [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 4:24 pm ]
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better jump on that soon or u gone be on friend zone homie
Author:  slimsta [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:55 am ]
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So today i came early to class.. set somewhere around where she usually sits. she didnt come to class >:( well i didnt know that.. i thought she is somewhere at the back and i was pissed that she didnt come sit next to me, so i flirted with some chick that i knew from last semester (which i kinda gave up to my buddy to have fun with her lol) and i hoped that the hb sees me with her. at the end of the class, i sent her a text "I'm getting a coffee, you can come if you like."
she texted back: ".. i didnt come to class today i was stuck in traffic blabla.."
me: "that's why i couldnt rob a bank.. my driver didnt show up ..... lets study math tomorrow.." [cant remember exactly how i said it]
her: "lol there is no school tomorrow you silly :) and im a fast driver, there are just to many cars ;b"
me: "lol ok. drive carefully. After all i need someone to buy me coffee"
her: "hhh ok but you will have to teach me math and we will see ;b"
me: "and make sure you look extra cute"
her: "hhh okay, will do.. "

i cant really remember half of the things but this is something like this.
monday we meeting up! hope i dont fuck it up.
my plan is to play the cube game, and DHV a bit.. go for coffee, maybe food after some "math studying" and hopefully k-close!
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