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Author:  Rooter [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:24 pm ]
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Last night and other nights now that I think of it I will be gaming to some girl and she will offer to buy me a drink and I always feel bad about that for some reason. What do you guys think of that? I am not doing any gambits or anything that would even suggest us buying drinks for each other so I know that they usually just want me to stay around. If I am just being a little bitch about it LMK but I want to know what you guys think I should do in this case cause the better I get at this game I get offered drinks more then my female friends that come out with me.
Author:  Johnny B. [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:55 pm ]
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Last night and other nights now that I think of it I will be gaming to some girl and she will offer to buy me a drink and I always feel bad about that for some reason. What do you guys think of that? I am not doing any gambits or anything that would even suggest us buying drinks for each other so I know that they usually just want me to stay around. If I am just being a little bitch about it LMK but I want to know what you guys think I should do in this case cause the better I get at this game I get offered drinks more then my female friends that come out with me.
I assume those girls went to that club to have fun. If they are enjoying your company and they want to buy you few one dollar beers than who cares. You aint
traumatiseing them mentally or financially....

[ Johnny B ]
Author:  Rooter [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 11:34 pm ]
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^^^ good response but now what if I said that beers were $2 haha jk
Author:  supachai [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 10:08 am ]
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They are trying to make you drunk, in other words, they are trying to intoxicate you. Don't feel sorry for them.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:46 pm ]
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Author:  redroooster [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:53 pm ]
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Why are you feeling bad? The money? That she's doing something for you? Something deeper than that?

At the end of they she is an adult and capable of her own choices - what you are doing is not unethical, and what is likely is that she likes you. She also probably wants a drink herself and feels strange drinking alone.
Author:  Fender43 [ Mon Jan 25, 2010 6:06 am ]
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Author:  Royalty [ Mon Jan 25, 2010 9:08 am ]
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Last night and other nights now that I think of it I will be gaming to some girl and she will offer to buy me a drink and I always feel bad about that for some reason.
I used to have a lot of trouble accepting gifts, taking compliments, asking for help/favors, etc... it comes from the very dangerous mindset of low self-worth.

Thing is: she WANTs to buy you a drink. People LIKE doing things for other people. It makes them feel good. You turning it down is not going to make her feel good. Unless you really have a good reason to turn it down (you don't drink), just accept it. If you don't want to get drunk, drink it slowly.

That's the quick answer. As for valuing yourself more, I'd recommend doing a lot of reading and/or listening, to stuff on pick-up but also self-help material. You really can transform yourself if you seek and find the right tools, then take the time to do it.
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Author:  Chelios [ Mon Jan 25, 2010 9:44 am ]
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They're doing it becuase they're interested in you man! Don't feel bad for them buying you a few drinks, its what they are wanting to do. Take this as a big ioi from women, because a lot won't do it, keep the fun and games up and the beers and some pussy will surely follow! :D
Author:  Mr Archer [ Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:10 pm ]
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If I am out and not getting bought drinks I figure I'm not being social enough.
Author:  Royalty [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 12:43 am ]
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If I am out and not getting bought drinks I figure I'm not being social enough.
Nice way to frame it, dude!
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