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| Author: | bag o donuts [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:05 am ] |
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New to forum b.t.w. Hope to contribute as much as I can. This is my situation. I get introduced to a girl at my local hang out spot. Make small talk the first time, talk again the next time I see her(1h). Third time I see her at the spot I got a real tight game from the beginning, I'm doing kino and getting some back, and I get her number like 30 min into the conversation. But then things get all screwy. My buddy comes in and starts chatting her up and she locks me out cold, I was in a bad spot, didn't take back control, and got frustrated. After that I could tell from her body language she lost a little interest in me. I left a little bit after that, no kiss. So NOW. I got her number, but I messed up the last half hour I spent with her. And now its as if she has the upper hand. It's Saturday now, how should I handle it from here? Do I: A. Call her next weekend to come chill at a club or bar. B. Wait to see her again without calling her. (I'm pretty sure I'll run into her next weekend) C. something else... I feel like the next time I see her I got to have a girl with me to get to think some more. Looking forward to seeing what you guys think! Thanks. |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:47 pm ] |
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Your in a very bad position right now. The only thing that can save you is Preselection. If you know she's gonna be at the club next weekend.. -Bring a hot female friend for help or Hook up with a set of girls and introduce them to target when you see her. If you do a direct approach on her again your value will go down to zero. AND if you get to talk to her. Think of her as a blind chick with one legg. If you have this mindset you wount seem needy. She should be glad your talking to her... She NEEDS to see and hear your high value in what you say and howe you act. Thats my thoughts. I hate when Im interupted in a set. Try work out some routines to controll situationes like this. |
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:14 pm ] |
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Well for next time take an ugly/geeky friend along because then you will look better by comparison. |
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| Author: | bag o donuts [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:41 pm ] |
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I think you're spot on Energy_. I can't be going up to her without some of my girlfriends with me next time. You kind of re-enforced what I was thinking and helped kill my 'call her, call her' instinct. I got plans to get in there next week with some girls and see how she reacts. Until I can put myself in that position I'm not gonna be calling her to go out. I'll keep this post updated on this particular girl, and tell you guys how it works out. |
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| Author: | Mr. ML [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:23 pm ] |
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Quote: Well for next time take an ugly/geeky friend along because then you will look better by comparison.
I'm not sure if this is such a good idea. If she sees you with a geeky friend, she might think you're a geek too. Don't want to show her DLV. Instead bring some hot chicks to DHV, just like Energy_ already said.
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