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Author:  1sumoson [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 12:56 am ]
Post subject:  is this a shit test????
i started this hb8 in my latin class added me on fb and then starts convos with me for the past two days ,so im talking to her on facebook chat and this is the jist of i

hb8:i hate that class he picks on me so much
me: yeah he owned you today lol
hb8:eww i would hate to get owned by him
me :hmm so do you like getting owned lol
hb8:what?
hb8:ohh i get it hahaha well.. what are we talking about?

^^^^^^is that a shit test?
and how should i respond btw she has a bf idk how important that is
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: is this a shit test????
Quote:
i started this hb8 in my latin class added me on fb and then starts convos with me for the past two days ,so im talking to her on facebook chat and this is the jist of i

hb8:i hate that class he picks on me so much
me: yeah he owned you today lol
hb8:eww i would hate to get owned by him
me :hmm so do you like getting owned lol
hb8:what?
hb8:ohh i get it hahaha well.. what are we talking about?

^^^^^^is that a shit test?
and how should i respond btw she has a bf idk how important that is
See, the shitty part about text/online chat game, is it's sometimes hard to tell what a person means. Thankfully, we've been introduced to emoticons to help us work that a little better. Sadly, i don't see any there, so we're gonna have to go oldschool analysis:

Well, you got her laughing, she added you, and started the convos with you, so i would take those as good signs.

As for that last line, I don't think it's really a test as much as it is just a little bump in the road.. it's no big deal, unless you trip on it.

If you come right out and say something exactly what you -and everyone else who read that- thought, it could go either way. If she's bold and confident, she might say "yea, i do, blah blah", which would be awesome. But you run the risk of offending her, (and since she didn't really catch that one innuendo you threw out there, she might have delicate sensibilities, or just be dumb).

The probably more "PUA-Kosher" way would be to not tell her what you are thinking, and let her use her imagination. Something like "I dunno, what did you think I meant?", or "How about you guess, and if you get it right, I'll tell you." Or something along those lines.

Also, the way she worded it (hoping it's word for word, but you did say 'jist' of it),
"ohh i get it hahaha well.. what are we talking about?". She didn't say "wait" or anything negative, implying she wanted to stop you from thinking what you were thinking. The way she has "well..." means she was thinking about it, and honestly, if you think about it, when you say it out loud, it can only make sense two ways. One is that she literally forgot what you were talking about. (unlikely), the other is that she is trying to get you to admit you are thinking naughty things about her, (you can practically feel the " ;) " that should be there. But of course, that would expose you, and put the ball in her court.

In conclusion, she probably digs you, if it comes up again, don't admit it, but let her imagination run with it, or make her earn it. Just don't come off as creepy.

(As always, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, (that's you, more experienced PUA's), or let me know if i have anything wrong here) I'm just speaking from what i know about psych and personal experience, so I'm obv not a perfect genius. (But let me know If i am right... Maybe I am a genius :P)
Author:  Exerio [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 12:06 pm ]
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Indirect game takes too much effort tbh, just go direct.

What you got there is usually referred to as 'last minute resistance'. It means that the situation is becoming uncomfortable for her, and she wants to get back into her comfort-zone. I would not advice you to let her, else there is no fun!

I like bringing people out of comfort-zones :twisted:

Anyhow, I would probably counter that message.

"Describe owned to me:)"

In other words, you don't really care about her message, you just go forward. She will go direct and tell you if you go too far anyways, that is the lovely thing about people. Move one step and they feel uncomfortable, move two steps and she feels attracted, move three steps and she freaks out. If she freaks out she will tell you.

- Exerio
Author:  1sumoson [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 11:22 pm ]
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hey , thanks for the responses
what i ened up going with was

me:Guess ;)
hb8:hmm
hb8:i have no idea

so then i just moved on and started talking about something else

the direct game counter is good stuff got any more?
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:04 am ]
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If ure not sure go with your instinct and assume usually insitinct is rite
you reframe by saying , what do you think were talkin about? Or before i answer that i got a question for you do you like men? her answer Yes kool so do you like getting owned
The guess is all so a good answer you made herjump through ure hoops therefore u can reward by jumping through hers later , IOI or a DHV or just dnt

and theres you're answer
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 6:03 pm ]
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Quote:
If ure not sure go with your instinct and assume usually insitinct is rite
you reframe by saying , what do you think were talkin about? Or before i answer that i got a question for you do you like men? her answer Yes kool so do you like getting owned
The guess is all so a good answer you made herjump through ure hoops therefore u can reward by jumping through hers later , IOI or a DHV or just dnt

and theres you're answer
....What? I have no idea what you're saying here past the first line... lol. Can we get some more punctuation in there, maybe some quotation marks to clean it up :P
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