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| Author: | Energy_ [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:06 pm ] |
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Most PU-material suggest the PUA should be intresting and be the person who gets questions regarding himself, or what he has been saying. And its great for opening sets, but in midgame, isolation etc its time for the target to start talking... I've had some problems after shooting a neg at a girl, with getting her back on the same level as me. I solved this problem some time ago with thinking of some thoughtful questions to ask a girl, in order for her to get a chance to demonstrate value back. Theese questions can be used to show that 1) you are a thoughtful person who have an intrest in peoples stories ( a lot of guys have learnt to say they're social but all they do is talk about them selves) 2) you'll get a serious answer and you can use the information to create a really good rapport. Adjusting your game to the information, by displaying some sides more then others, this is a very powerfull tool. Example When she's talking about what she does... But is that your real passion? Is it something you would consider doing for the rest of your life? SHE: bla bla bla.. Answer: I can really level with that. It was really intersting to hear your point of view. If you have any good questions to use feel free to post! Thanks for reading. |
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| Author: | driberif [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 12:07 am ] |
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You said 'you are a thoughtful person who have an interest in people stories' Why do you answer with an affirmation and no follow up? She is giving you all kinds of bait during your BLA BLA BLA for her talking haha. You can ask a woman any question and actively listen to her and come up with talking points on the spot. Thats a good conversation starter question though. I also like, if you could be anywhere in the world right now where would it be? But also remember to have your response, she is going to put you on the spot right back with the same question. |
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| Author: | xibuz [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 4:01 am ] |
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When she tells you she likes to do a certain thing. Why do you like X Because of Y Why do you like Y Because of Z And why do you like Z..... Usually 3 is enough to go very deep in understanding an aspect of her true nature. This works with any person including yourself. |
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