I think that the idea of talking about your knowledge is good for DHV, and I do it a lot. If you do it correctly the girls will smile and be impressed, but if you seem too cocky or whatnot they will think that you're pushing their buttons and controlling them, which will make them walk away. However, I am often asked after doing something like the cube how I know that (because girls ALWAYS love the cube), and whether I go to school for it. You just respond with "No, I just like to stay busy, so I'm always trying to learn new things. I read a lot about social interactions and the way people behave and things like that..." Then you point something out about their body language, or someone else in the room. "Like, I can tell that you're probably a pretty emotionally focused person. You tend to follow your heart, don't you?" They'll smile and say "Um... yeah. OMG, how do you know that?" and you'll say "Well while we're talking you keep looking down, toward your heart. It means..." Blah, blah blah... and then tell them the different ways people move their eyes and what it means. Always end with whether they are lying or not (up and to the right is a lie, up and to the left is remembering) and then say "So you better not lie to me, young lady!"
I also tend to give PU advice to the obstacle, because the obstacle always seems to be having some sort of drama. Just be like "Listen, you need to ignore that guy and make him come to you, don't play his game..." something simple, but true. I've actually led an obstacle to a successful number close in a bar, which is a HUGE DHV and of course they all want to see you again. When they ask how you know that, you just say "It's human nature..."
Just be careful, you don't want to go into details about your actions and how you knew the response they would create. You can talk about their past relationships like you were saying, but never say "Like when I walked up to you, I said that I only had a second because I knew that would disarm you if you didn't think I was going to stay here... so you were more willing to talk to me." That makes you sound like a creep, and she's going to think you're trying to control her or something. So use it, but be careful! Don't give away your secrets, you can't ever talk about what you know in a way that is directly related to picking people up. You'll blow yourself out.
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