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| Author: | MethodJKL11 [ Sun Apr 26, 2009 7:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | transitioning into a relationship |
alright, so lately i've been really busy with school and stuff, so gaming has been minimal. but now, turns out this girl, that i personally find very attractive, "likes" me. she's a long-time friend of mine.. i gamed her a little bit a while ago, didn't think it worked, but i guess it did. so anyway, here's the situation: she digs me. i'm not supposed to know she digs me. i totally wanna get with this chick. however, she knows i'm interested in her. she's unsure tho, because i don't give her any special attention, and she see's me flirt with other chicks. now my goal is to build up some more attraction, get her to reeaallly like me, and then take her on dates and shit. for some reason, i'm at a loss of what specifically to do, considering we already know each other fairly well. how do i approach this? thanks, method |
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| Author: | FrequentFlyerCA [ Sun Apr 26, 2009 8:23 pm ] |
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I'm gonna ask a few questions first, some might also give some answers: - Have you gotten her number? If so, then text her asking, "So what are you doin' today", or something similar, and you should be able to go from there. Remember, they give you their number for a reason. - Have you used kino? This is the best way to build comfort, and eventually, lets a girl know you want to be more than friends. - Does she know that you are available? I have had several girls tell me, "I didnt want to flirt with you because I thought you had a girlfriend". Make it clear that you are single. - Have you given her any more attention than you give every other girl? If not, then give it a try. She needs to know that you arent treating her a "just another girl". Hope this helps. Good luck. |
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| Author: | MethodJKL11 [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:36 am ] |
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hey grkiller, thanks for the reply. -yes i've gotten her number, a while back (as friends). but her phone broke. -haven't really used kino. i definitely will. but should i wait until dates or something? cause for now, we're just friends. and i "secretely" know she digs me. lol -yah she knows i'm available. she also knows i'm interested in her. but at the same time, i'm giving the vibe that i'm not limiting myself to just her.. kinda dhving. -i'm planning on amping up the attention pretty soon.. gonna ask her out... and get things going i'm just unclear on how to specifically approach this... cause i've known this girl for quite some time.. i want to gain more of her attraction and build up a sexual relationship. |
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| Author: | FrequentFlyerCA [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 11:57 pm ] |
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Well, set up the date as soon as possible (dont seem too needy. Just use the "you wanna tag along" line, showing that theres little worry if she cant show) to somewhere fun ("fun" meaning non-date locations. Ice Cream, Mall, etc.). Honestly though, you seem like you have your game down-pat, and she seems to be into you, so all there is to do now is execute. Good luck. |
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