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| Author: | forefit [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | If a girl says you are cute? |
So what do you say back if a girl says you are cute? I was thinking something flirty like "Oh that makes the two of us then" Can any one think of anything else or anything better to say. |
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| Author: | Success [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:50 pm ] |
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"Thats right, and you get to take advantage of our special offer. Today only, everything half price." |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 5:20 pm ] |
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I usually respond with a brief and charming 'thanks' with strong eye contact, then move on. The idea is you want to reward good behaviour, without passing that critical point where you over do it and there is a slight awkwardness. It's more what NOT to do than what TO do. Here are some typical AFC behaviours you DEFINATELY don't do: -return the compliment -appear flattered -tease her for liking you. The last one is a mistake PUA's in training can make. Remember she has behaved well, so you need to reward it so that you encourage that behaviour in the future. You want her to like you not hate you! The first one is just 100% retarded (even if you have a genuine compliment to make, save it for later or she will not take it genuinely), the second one basically subcommunicates that you have low value, don't get much, and have low survival (and replication) value. |
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 7:01 pm ] |
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This has been covered to death on this forum. I believe this is the best thing I have came up with. "Whoa whoa whoa there speed racer! Compliments like that earn you points, but wont get you into my pants that easily. You gotta buy me a drink first!" Cocky funny smile. She will probably laugh and you move the conversation the direction you want to take it. CK |
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| Author: | Johnny T [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 10:55 pm ] |
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Now we're getting somewhere. You need to put yourself in the mindset that you are told that a lot. I would say, "Why don't you tell me something I don't hear 20 times a week" - and KINO right afterwards Actually, what Chino said is way better. But the most important thing is KINO. It doesn't matter what you say too much, as long as you reward her with touch. first post woo woo 
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 3:19 pm ] |
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Wouldn't you just kiss her at this point? |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Sun Mar 01, 2009 5:27 pm ] |
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I think that the only reaction a confident guy would have is simply "thanks". With the right delivery, you're suggesting that you get it all the tme without openly bragging about it (which she will see through). And yes if you're in isolation, this would probably be an invitation to kiss her. |
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| Author: | playa38 [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 11:26 am ] |
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I reckon a good thing to say would be: Her: I think ur cute You: Thanks, it is good to know that a beautiful woman apreciates me. Or something along those lines. If all goes well, u could say I am goin to a cafe (or somthin like that) and ask her to join you, then ur in business  !Good Luck! 
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| Author: | swinger [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 6:06 pm ] |
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Do not give her a compliment like "that makes the two of us". No mPUA would even dream of saying that. "Thanks" is good- it conveys a very alpha personality. Alternatively, depending on the situation a c&f DD answer like "are you tryng to get me into bed with you, I'm not that easy..." would also work. |
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:33 pm ] |
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Quote: Wouldn't you just kiss her at this point?
Best answer ever.
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| Author: | appleyard46 [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 9:12 pm ] |
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Kasabi that just opened up a whole new world. Everytime a girl says that now, I know exactly what to do. Holy shit. So obvious but so true! |
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| Author: | Mawds [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 1:43 pm ] |
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I'm no PUA master but if a girl said "your cute" i'd feel intimidated like she thought she was above me, I would have thought of bringing her down a few notches with a NEG?? or that cheeky reply about earing points and getting into my pants... i certainly wudnt go straight for the kiss but maybe i'm wrong? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 4:00 pm ] |
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Chino Kapone, Johnny T, and Mawds = wrong You need to reward a woman if she gives you attention or anything positive. If you punish her good behavior in any way, she's going to stop that behavior. Chino's post makes it evident that he hasn't tried this in-field. Try it and it'll flop. Johnny T's response is only OK because he push/pulls with kino. It's still not the best course of action, though. Mawds is just insecure as fuck lol. Yes there is a way a girl can call you "cute" and have it be condescending, but that's very rare. More often than not, when a girl calls you cute she is flirting. Here's my way of going about this (yes this was field tested) HB: You're cute Chief: You're sexy I've played around with variations like saying "I'm sexy," but that can become quite difficult to balance in terms of C&F, especially if you don't already have my personality. "You're sexy," said with the thought of sex on your mind, is the best response. It verbally escalates the interaction toward a more sexual direction because of this short instance of sexual framing. |
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| Author: | appleyard46 [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 3:45 am ] |
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Quote: Here's my way of going about this (yes this was field tested)
*claps*HB: You're cute Chief: You're sexy I've played around with variations like saying "I'm sexy," but that can become quite difficult to balance in terms of C&F, especially if you don't already have my personality. "You're sexy," said with the thought of sex on your mind, is the best response. It verbally escalates the interaction toward a more sexual direction because of this short instance of sexual framing. Wow, great stuff. I like it because if you say it with the thought of sex on your mind, you say it much more smoothly and softly. You don't want to sound like a creep, but you want to sound like you're cool and calm. |
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 5:15 pm ] |
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Whatev. Can you do something about your avatar chief? Some of us are at work. CK |
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