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| Author: | pspman354 [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:58 am ] |
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basically, im confused about what to do between the time you open the set or girl and the # close. can i please have some examples or a step by step..... i would really appreciate it...... |
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| Author: | C-Diesel [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 3:36 am ] |
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Well, since most people base this whole PUA thing off 'The Game' or the show on VH1, I would suggest getting 'The Mystery Method'. It explains everything very well, but it does tend to get a little dry. But since you're looking for a quick response without much personal effort, you need to attract them! This is where you bring a lot of your kino, games like ESP/5 lies/trust test, but you also need to learn how to throw in the appropriate amount of fluff talk, not only to come across as more genuine BUT to actually get to know the girl a little! Don't confuse what I just said about fluff talk with the comfort stage! I can't stress enough about the kino....KINO, KINO, KINO!!! BUT not to contradict myself, you also need to pay attention to how you escalate and make sure you do it appropriately. Control your body language as well! Keep a strong, relaxed frame! |
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| Author: | pspman354 [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 3:52 am ] |
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what is the difference between fluff talk and comfort building????? they both seem the same, and thank you very much for your response |
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| Author: | C-Diesel [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 7:16 am ] |
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Fluff talk is just small banter that goes on when you're in the attraction phase to fill lulls in the conversation. This is where the 'what do you do' or 'How do you all know each other' questions come in. Basically it's small talk that you would have with an aquaintance, nothing serious. Comfort building is when you start getting deeper like asking her about her family or where she sees herself in 5 years. You know...getting to actually know someone. There is a HUGE difference! If you try to ask too many comfort building questions while in the attraction phase you could come across as a little needy/creepy(maybe those are the wrong words) regardless, she shouldn't neccessarily feel comfortable at that point in time to discuss those things with a stranger. Same goes with using fluff talk while in the comfort phase. If you ask to many generic questions then you will probably come across as try hard or desperate. Comfort questions should come across as you try ing to get to know her...which you actually should be at this point! Hope this helps. |
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