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| Author: | slyguy [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 6:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how to take it to the next level ... |
so i have a problem, and i'm finally starting to realize it now but its been a huge problem for me since i was younger even. that problem is taking it to the next level with girls. i have only ever gotten with girls that i knew for a long time, with the exception of one. anyway, i can talk to girls no problem and call them and stuff, but i never really know what to do to take it further with them. another problem i have is tryin to pick and stick with just one single girl, b/c at any given time i would want to be with like 3 different ones, but this screws me over most times b/c i just get with none. and the final thing that i have in my head that gives me trouble is that i dont want necesarily to have a long term relationship. so what this does is make me feel like if i take it farther with one girl then she is giong to think i want to date her... this isnt what i want to happen all the time so any advice is awseome, and i know that a lot of these things are probably in my head, but hearing it from other ppl helps a lot |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to take it to the next level ... |
Quote: anyway, i can talk to girls no problem and call them and stuff, but i never really know what to do to take it further with them.
You need to get them out some where. Take them to a movie, park, place to eat,etc. You just need to ISOLATE them so that it's only you and her some where. Then you need to do a KISS CLOSE routine (here is one): You ask, "Would you like to kiss me? If she says yes, kiss her. If she says, "Maybe," ''Why?", "What do you mean" or "I donno" it means she does, but is shy about it. Reply with a gleam in your eye, "Let's find out..." *kiss* Remember to caress the back of her neck to show you mean business. If she says no, you reply, "Well I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." (Don't ask "Why not?" This shows low self-esteem.) If she says, "not yet" or "not here" it means she is open to it but there is a logistical issue. Perhaps her friends are nearby, or she needs more gaming first. Say, "I understand," and continue gaming her. Quote: another problem i have is tryin to pick and stick with just one single girl, b/c at any given time i would want to be with like 3 different ones, but this screws me over most times b/c i just get with none.
Game all of them, but make sure that you lay your game on THICK withthe one that you really want FIRST. This way, you still have the others on the "back-burner". Pulling a "John Tucker" is not a good idea, but to each his own. Quote: and the final thing that i have in my head that gives me trouble is that i dont want necesarily to have a long term relationship. so what this does is make me feel like if i take it farther with one girl then she is giong to think i want to date her... this isnt what i want to happen all the time.
If you just want to be a "player" ... let her know that you have no intentionsof "dating" her right off. Don't play with their heads. No where in this community do we condone being a "player". We are a group of guys who are in the game to "better" ourselves as whole individuals. We are not out just to "get laid." That is not what we are all about. |
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| Author: | slyguy [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 7:05 pm ] |
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so not being a player... couldnt theoretically the first girl i get with be with me for a while? i mean if i get with her one nite, why wouldnt i just continue doin so? that actually clears stuff up tho b/c i'm not sure what the pua is about as far as relationships and shit i never understood it |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 7:55 pm ] |
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Quote: so not being a player... couldnt theoretically the first girl i get with be with me for a while? i mean if i get with her one nite, why wouldnt i just continue doin so?
Yes. The first girl that you get with can in fact be the one that you can bewith for a while. Just make sure that you don't get all "pussy whipped" in the process. If you don't know what I mean by that... pussy whipped in essence means being a kiss-ass to the girl, doing whatever she wants, whenever she wants. Quote: that actually clears stuff up tho b/c i'm not sure what the pua is about as far as relationships and shit i never understood it
A PUA in essence, learns all this stuff in order to get into a relationship. Ifyou read the book THE GAME or THE MYSTERY METHOD, then you will know that Mystery and Neil Strauss got into the "game" in order to learn how to meet girls in order to get a girlfriend and a long term relationship. |
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