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Author:  wants10 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 12:51 am ]
Post subject:  new to this... need help

Hey everyone,
new to the PUA thing, i have met this girl, prob a nine, first time we met was saturday night, i went over to her place and her SPAM was there, thing is i hardly paid this nine any attention at all. It was much easier for me to talk to her SPAM who is maybe a 7. I text the nine today and said "thanks for having me over sat i didnt pay you as much attention as i should have, i will next time" she replied straight away with "all good i am used to it" . thats it, i havent replied its been a few hours. Where to from here, i want to hook into this girl and i want advice on how i should move forward with out fucking it up.

Thanks

Author:  Stormy [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 2:17 am ]
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She's probably disappointed that you didn't bone her.

You don't need game here. Just kino escalate and then bone.

Author:  wants10 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 4:12 am ]
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update
text her and said 'thats going to change' bit later she was on msn so i said "hey thanks again your really nice and your SPAM seems nice aswell" she said "yeah i noticed you were taking a liking to her" i feel like i am making simple errors, like should i of even said thanks? should i shut her out for a fews days now or should i go for day 2 right away? this girl is pretty hot hey, not some average garden variety girl.. so i want to tread carefully lol

Thanks

Author:  Stormy [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 4:58 am ]
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update
text her and said 'thats going to change' bit later she was on msn so i said "hey thanks again your really nice and your SPAM seems nice aswell" she said "yeah i noticed you were taking a liking to her"
Oooh, not good. She may have already lost hope.
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i feel like i am making simple errors, like should i of even said thanks?


If you made a mistake, you already made it and you can't change it. Time to move on. You've still got a nine in play here. Learn your lessons later.
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should i shut her out for a fews days now or should i go for day 2 right away? this girl is pretty hot hey, not some average garden variety girl.. so i want to tread carefully lol

Thanks
GO FOR THE DAY2 ASAP

Two reasons. One, it shows that you're still interested in her, which she needs to know, RIGHT NOW. Two, it shows that you're not afraid to keep the interaction going even after something awkward like that. A lot of guys would wait a while to get up the courage to call her back.

You are not a lot of guys.

Grab the cow by the tits and GOGOGOGO

And forget that she's a nine. That'll just put more pressure on you. She IS some average garden variety girl.

Author:  wants10 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 5:14 am ]
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yeah ok, so you think i should go for day two like an assumption? as in ring her and say i am taking you out on thursday etc etc, or should i be like hey what you got on this week?

thanks for help by the way

Author:  Stormy [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:18 pm ]
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yeah ok, so you think i should go for day two like an assumption? as in ring her and say i am taking you out on thursday etc etc, or should i be like hey what you got on this week?

thanks for help by the way
Deal with it like a normal day2. "Hey, I'm going to X on Y day. Wanna come?"

Author:  wants10 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 11:09 pm ]
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well i got some advice from an actuall woman on how to proceed, yes thats right lol a woman, we had a bit of a talk on msn again and i couldnt tell if this was her way of brushing me off or if she was genuinely dissapointed.

i sent her a text later saying (and i know some will prob go wtf did you do that?) i was shocked by how beautiful you were and i got a little nervous, how about we forget the other night and start again, wanna catch up one night this week?

response was "you made me feel like shit blah blah blah", princess mentality, it was long long winded and very self absorbed response, it ended with her saying "your not interested in me its no big deal".

i text back "i already told you i was interested but i wont beg, its not healthy and you should know that lol. i will speak to you tomorow , your a sweety"

thats it, i think its time to shut this girl out for a couple of days and concentrate on someone else

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