PUA Forum :: Shit Test: Surviving and recognizing

A awesome way to survive shit tests is to feel what she says.

Like she says something and it makes you feel bad, then you respond accordingly or good and you respond accordingly. Its the empathy which preveals in the end!

Her: You should buy me coffee
Impact:I would but then all the other girls would want coffee and id be without cash! we cant have that now can we
her:If you really liked me you’d do it
Impact: Is that what you tell all the men you date?

Lets say shes being hurtful

Her: I don't date guys like you
Impact: No wonder you walk around as if youve got a constant period
Her: Your not funny
Impact: And your not the best thing since sliced bread, get over yourself
Her: I never said I was
Impact: bla bla bla, I'm over this backwards forwards bullshit, so anyway <change topic>

If she keeps going give her a bit of a cold shoulder, tell her

Impact: You don't stop do you? we were on that onversation thread yesturday, we are past that now! get with the times

The key is to calibrate and use empathy, you'll always get the right results of both of that work.

Author:	Yellaz [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 4:23 am ]
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Yo i've noticed that i get shit tested like hell...on a daily basis i've watched a vid on mystery getting shit tested one time it helped me a little but most of the time i get tested way harder. What are some tips to survivng these so called test and knowing when one is being thrown at you. Or if its just a girl being bitchy anyone?

Author:	izitok2look [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 5:24 am ]
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getting shit tested is just a result of these girls hearing a lot of the same game over and over. if you expect the shit test and aren't caught off guard you'll come out a lot better. onedeadlysin2go

Author:	vitaminc [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 3:50 pm ]
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shit tests are often used to check for congruency, to see whether they can shake your confidence or break your frame. so just stay in your frame. you allowed them into your world, keep that mindset.

Author:	Foreplay [ Mon Dec 08, 2008 7:17 pm ]
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when you get shit tested, you just say what any cocky mother fucker would say. say exactly what she expects you not to say and act like you really don't give a shit what she thinks about it.

Author:	Charlie0 [ Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:53 pm ]
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What exactly is a shit test? Example?

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Author:	Abdul-aAfc [ Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:26 pm ]
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When you are giving a shit test the only thing you can do is think fast and give a cocky comeback. There's no other way behind it.

Author:	Impact [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 2:38 am ]
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A awesome way to survive shit tests is to feel what she says. Like she says something and it makes you feel bad, then you respond accordingly or good and you respond accordingly. Its the empathy which preveals in the end! Her: You should buy me coffee Impact:I would but then all the other girls would want coffee and id be without cash! we cant have that now can we her:If you really liked me you’d do it Impact: Is that what you tell all the men you date? Lets say shes being hurtful Her: I don't date guys like you Impact: No wonder you walk around as if youve got a constant period Her: Your not funny Impact: And your not the best thing since sliced bread, get over yourself Her: I never said I was Impact: bla bla bla, I'm over this backwards forwards bullshit, so anyway <change topic> If she keeps going give her a bit of a cold shoulder, tell her Impact: You don't stop do you? we were on that onversation thread yesturday, we are past that now! get with the times The key is to calibrate and use empathy, you'll always get the right results of both of that work.

Author:	com.solo [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:10 am ]
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Quote: A awesome way to survive shit tests is to feel what she says. Like she says something and it makes you feel bad, then you respond accordingly or good and you respond accordingly. Its the empathy which preveals in the end! Her: You should buy me coffee Impact:I would but then all the other girls would want coffee and id be without cash! we cant have that now can we her:If you really liked me you’d do it Impact: Is that what you tell all the men you date? Lets say shes being hurtful Her: I don't date guys like you Impact: No wonder you walk around as if youve got a constant period Her: Your not funny Impact: And your not the best thing since sliced bread, get over yourself Her: I never said I was Impact: bla bla bla, I'm over this backwards forwards bullshit, so anyway <change topic> If she keeps going give her a bit of a cold shoulder, tell her Impact: You don't stop do you? we were on that onversation thread yesturday, we are past that now! get with the times The key is to calibrate and use empathy, you'll always get the right results of both of that work. With all due respect to your seniority, I think that's the worst recommendation on how do deal with shit tests I've ever read. You're responses are defensive and let the shit test work. It's like this. Jack is hitting on a girl. Jack seems to be confident, funny, and his cocky attitude is both attractive, and seems unshakeable. Girl wants to check if it's just an act, or if he really is a confident, funny, cocky, Alpha male. Because if he is really a confident, cocky, funny, Alpha male then her little jabs won't hurt him. Thus: Girl: What do you do for a living? Guy: I used to be a hitman but I quit cuz I felt bad for all the guns I had to throw away. Girl [subconsciously thinks: Look, this guys funny and he's pretty confident... let's see if it's real or fake]: You're not that funny. Real Confident Guy response [he keeps his state of mind and his frame]: It's not funny. I really feel bad for wasting all that metal and plastic. Think of all the work chinese teenagers put into that. beta male he-bitch[gets slightly hurt, thinks: shit, she jabbed me, I need to jab her back]: Yeah and you're not that cute. ... or ... Guy [acting like a cocky, funny, alpha male]: Hey, I need your opinion on something. Does this hat make me look too sexy? Like you think I'll lose girls cuz they think I'm out of their league? Girl [thinks -- this guy is funny, cocky, and playful, as well as confident... let's see if it's a fake or if he's real]: You're not hot enough to be that cocky. Confident guy [keeps his frame, remains cocky, funny, and playful]: And you're not a good liar. Weak guy: Yeah, and you're not hot enough to be that bitchy. In the second example he demonstrates insecurity by DEFENDING himself. Suppose I talked to Kobe Bryant and said he was a shitty basketball player? Do you think he's going to sit down and defend himself. No he'll just laugh because he knows he's right. Or he might make a funny comment. But it's not going to hit him. That's what shit tests are. They're TESTS. Bullshit tests. They're seeing if you're full of shit with your cocky super-confident behaviour, or if that's really you. Because if that's really you, you're not going to suddenly become defensive when she acts unimpressed.

Author:	Impact [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:22 am ]
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Everything I said has been tested in field, i don’t care about analogy’s!. Quote: You're responses are defensive and let the shit test work. Incorrect, shows you can be a bitch back, gives grounds for a fun banter! The key is to do it in her voice when you return the favour, or act in her manner. Keep in mind everything is calibrated to somebody, not all women are the same and not all women require you to do that! There are many other ways of avoiding shit tests including completely ignoring what she says or calling her cute, you can do anything, just figure out where shes at and what she could use, everyone has a great dose of empathy.

Author:	com.solo [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:34 am ]
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Yeah and everything I've said is tested in field. Perhaps you're misunderstanding the definition of shit test. A shit test is a SHIT TEST. It's a test to see if you're [bull]shit. Yes, you may very well succeed if you respond in like manner, because at least you're not being totally submissive. Totally submissive would be: Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: I guess not.... haha sorry. But still, you're reponses are just bitchy back, which isn't true Alpha behavior. Maybe you get laid, but ask any guru, and judge by the results the best response to a shit test is generally acknowledge while completely remaining in frame.

Author:	Impact [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:45 am ]
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Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: and you dont havnt got a pedicure, lifes to short to mingle on small things now isnt it Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: um okay Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: lies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: my life ambitions as a comedian........... shatterd sniff Im reduced to your level now.... great! so when are we buying a shoe box house? Girl: you're not that funny. Guy: miaow? miaow! blinks Any answer works, anything works, keep in your reality, have fun, use your empathy, ive said that 3 times now and enjoy life.

Author:	com.solo [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:50 am ]
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Lol mate, those replies I agree with. It was just in your first post, all of your answers were answers where the guy clearly had been hurt by the 'hurtful' shit tests, which isn't how you respond. But hey, let's not argue over semantics. If it works for you, awesome, I was just trying to clarify shit.

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