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Author:  vandal66 [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 7:12 am ]
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i been gaming this girl and i think its working out. i've actually been wondering about this for quite a while now. can anyone think of a PUA way to ask a girl to be your gf? a CF line or something like that?
Author:  L.H. [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:32 pm ]
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I never ASK a girl to be my girlfriend.. it just kinda happens.
Usually questions don't work - commands do. Like: "We are meeting up for coffee" instead of "Do you want to meet up for coffee?
I have a theory that says that; If you want her to be your GF there's no need of gaming her (of course you should do it in the beginning to attract her and so forth). Being in a relationship means that you are YOURSELF around your GF, and by gaming her all the time you wont get there.

Anyhow, if you absolutely must ASK her to be your GF, just do it. Just tell her that you want her to be your GF because you like hanging out with her.
Author:  Foreplay [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 3:03 am ]
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LH is right, you just need to bring it up and say "i think we should be exclusive" or something to that effect.
Author:  Swoop [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 11:14 am ]
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you just need to bring it up and say "i think we should be exclusive"
Money.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 6:35 pm ]
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Make it playful. Write the question on a piece of paper with the words YES and NO at the bottom and ask her to circle one or the other. Then place the paper where you know she will see it.

If she plays along, you have a keeper.
Author:  Warrier [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 8:14 pm ]
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Sinful nice idea. If you want to be cocky about it, just make a giant yes box and don't even bother to make a no one. Then if she asks you "Why no no?" Then just play along saying "I can't believe that you would think such a thing about me"...or whatever.
Author:  V1V [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:26 pm ]
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If your going to go direct dont ask.
PUA: Be my girlfriend.
Author:  L.H. [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:48 pm ]
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I once asked a girl to prom by making boxes that said: "Yes", "No", "Only if we make out!".. she loved it.. nice "be my gf" idea...
Author:  Falcone [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 2:06 am ]
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Yeah ive been wondering what period of dating a chick you become a couple and call each other gf and bf.

I think this may be my issue, I know people who refer to someone as their gf after 2-3 week - maybe 4 dates or so.

I have been dating different chicks for 4 weeks, 6 weeks, and 2 months - seeing each other several teams per week, staying witch each other and so and it never progressed to a point where I was comfortable calling them my gf - incase they were like "wtf".

I think I have a problem transitioning into a relationship here.

Any tips?
Author:  Bo_Darville [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 5:00 am ]
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Yeah ive been wondering what period of dating a chick you become a couple and call each other gf and bf.

I think this may be my issue, I know people who refer to someone as their gf after 2-3 week - maybe 4 dates or so.

I have been dating different chicks for 4 weeks, 6 weeks, and 2 months - seeing each other several teams per week, staying witch each other and so and it never progressed to a point where I was comfortable calling them my gf - incase they were like "wtf".

I think I have a problem transitioning into a relationship here.

Any tips?
Same here. I've dated chicks for months without calling them the GF, it just didn't feel right to do so. Of course maybe my case was a bit different, as I enjoyed their company, but didn't want to go to the BF/GF titles because I didn't want to be exclusive.

But I've doing this for so long that I can't help feeling that girls do it to, so when not too long ago when I DID have a girl I considered going the title route with, I wasn't sure if it was right to do so. In that case, I think I wiated too long, and she lost interest. Funny how that works. The ones you DO want lose interest so quickly, and the ones you don't can hang on for months. I have this one girl I haven't been on a date with in over a year, but I know that all it takes is one text and then it's BJ time.

Anyway, I think that if you DO want to take that leap, it's better to just do it and not overthink it.

I couldn't ask a girl to "be my girlfriend" in those words, it just sounds so middle school. But I think bringing up exclusivity is a good way to do it.

Another way to do it would be to just go for it an introduce her as your girlfriend sometime, she how she reacts. OR, as to not do it and public and risk a bad reaction, just let it slip out in coversation with her.

I did this one, it worked well. Girl was telling me how a guy at work was flirting with her, and I said something like "uh oh, what's up with this dude trying to steal my GF?". That kind of stopped her cold, and she asked, Oh, am I your girlfriend? And I said "damn straight". And she smiled, and said "oh ok, good".
Author:  Foreplay [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 10:03 am ]
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I did this one, it worked well. Girl was telling me how a guy at work was flirting with her, and I said something like "uh oh, what's up with this dude trying to steal my GF?". That kind of stopped her cold, and she asked, Oh, am I your girlfriend? And I said "damn straight". And she smiled, and said "oh ok, good".


on this it's hard to tell if she's just going along with your cocky funny, so you're never really sure. the best way to do it is just tell her that it's time to be exclusive, or any of the previous posts work great.
Author:  L.H. [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 2:25 pm ]
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i like the idea of introducing her as your GF.. and if she looks at you weirdly just say something like: "Right?!" (to make her respond)

PS. If she slaps you across the face it's NOT a good sign :D
Author:  Prolific [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 5:00 pm ]
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LH, i wouldnt go with straight up introducing her to someone as your girlfriend without there being a mutual understanding of this fact before hand. having to ask her "Right" just makes it an akward situation that makes her the most uncomfortable. The best time to solidify that a relationship is exclusive is in an intimate enviroment.
I love sinful's idea of the paper note, modified with only the "yes" box. If you have done things right she isnt going to need to the no or maybe ones anyway. It also is a command and women love a man that is assertive and knows what he wants.
realtionships are work though, and id make sure that i wanted to actually put in the time it takes to have a healthy one.
Author:  L.H. [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 5:37 pm ]
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Yeah, you're right Prolific. I guess you would put her in an awkward situation no matter what...
Author:  Bronco [ Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:38 am ]
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I'd do it in the car while driving somewhere, after you finish doing whatever you''re doing that night, and just say it. I like the "I think we should be exclusive" but just say it while you're driving. Some of the best stuff I think gets accomplished in a car, while driving. My opinion.
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