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Author:  salsifter [ Mon Aug 15, 2016 12:28 am ]
Post subject:  Pattern where I get number then girl flakes/rejects over tex

Hi
I am approaching girls at college, street, at dance and basically any other activity I do (gym etc -- even the time I was donating blood haha)
Often I will talk to a girl usually opening Hi I am ... or I thought you were cute and came/wanted to say hi

Then I talk about stuff I did in the weekend, interests, tell a story; usually talking for anywhere between 2-10 minutes before I carry on (at college) and ask if she'd like to catch up sometime and get her number, sometimes I ask which times work best. I usually text immediately when she is there with me; or in the evening / day later.

This happens with a lot of girls at university
Happened with a girl I met at dance last night
I met a few girls working at the mall the other day, I decided to stop there one night as I had been sick and overseas so I hadn't meet any girls in about a month, both that gave me their numbers didn't reply.

Anyway you get the point!

Then I get rejected over text (agreeing than flaking over text, sorry actually I'm not interested, no reply) and am finding it takes 5-10 numbers before I get one to meet up.

I'm regularly told I'm confident and dress great so I it's got something to do with my game and mindset. I've only just recently developed core confidence over this year; so it may take some time for my game to catch up?

Another issue I've had is befriending girls. When I try be friendly with girls I know I seem to put them off from forming friendships; even when I am consciously trying to be more friendly and less flirty... I've also only really focused on befriending more girls and expanding my network and less on hooking up; so it may take time.

Any input for a young man appreciated :)

Author:  galist [ Mon Aug 15, 2016 1:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pattern where I get number then girl flakes/rejects over

Quote:
Hi
I am approaching girls at college, street, at dance and basically any other activity I do (gym etc -- even the time I was donating blood haha)
Often I will talk to a girl usually opening Hi I am ... or I thought you were cute and came/wanted to say hi

Then I talk about stuff I did in the weekend, interests, tell a story; usually talking for anywhere between 2-10 minutes before I carry on (at college) and ask if she'd like to catch up sometime and get her number, sometimes I ask which times work best. I usually text immediately when she is there with me; or in the evening / day later.

This happens with a lot of girls at university
Happened with a girl I met at dance last night
I met a few girls working at the mall the other day, I decided to stop there one night as I had been sick and overseas so I hadn't meet any girls in about a month, both that gave me their numbers didn't reply.

Anyway you get the point!

Then I get rejected over text (agreeing than flaking over text, sorry actually I'm not interested, no reply) and am finding it takes 5-10 numbers before I get one to meet up.

I'm regularly told I'm confident and dress great so I it's got something to do with my game and mindset. I've only just recently developed core confidence over this year; so it may take some time for my game to catch up?

Another issue I've had is befriending girls. When I try be friendly with girls I know I seem to put them off from forming friendships; even when I am consciously trying to be more friendly and less flirty... I've also only really focused on befriending more girls and expanding my network and less on hooking up; so it may take time.

Any input for a young man appreciated :)
either the girls don't want to reject you in person lest you hurt them OR you could tighten your txt game

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