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| Author: | pua_psychology [ Thu Jul 14, 2016 1:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." text |
Hey guys.. So I'm new to this forum but not new to pick-up.. been doing it for a while- also am a psychologist so I like the psych aspect of it... My dilemma is a text that occurs all the time with me. I sleep with a girl and we go on 2 or 3 dates and convo goes like this: Her: I wish I could see you tonight... Me: Maybe you could... Her: (Some variation of..) I'm too tired.. maybe tomorrow So... I have played around with different answers to the text and I've identified that they are just wanting you to say "yes yes come over" so that they can reject you. I know I could just reject her, but why not twist it to make her think this is what she wanted in the first place and end in mutual satisfaction when she comes to mine? I have an idea: Maybe if I take her message as a question and then make her convince me to let her come over. E.g. Her: I wish I could see you tonight... Me: I have a rule not to see a girl two nights in a row... it would take a lot for you to convince me otherwise... This way, I have semi-rejected her and she has to convince me to come over, as if that is what she wanted in the first place. What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 14, 2016 1:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." t |
Reply: Can you keep your hands to yourself? Puts it on her. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Jul 14, 2016 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." t |
Beat her to the punch: 'Yeah come over, but no hanky panky okay? I am on my period' 'Yeah come over, but no hanky panky okay? I haven't shaved my legs 'Yeah come over, but no hanky panky okay? I am doing the Netflix only without the 'Chill' 'Yeah come over, but you gotta promise to keep your hands to yourself okay? I am not a sausage with legs You get the idea Or you can dominate the frame and be like: 'Lol cut the crap, you know where I live, leave the head games at home, dress sexy so we match' |
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| Author: | Finished [ Fri Jul 15, 2016 10:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." t |
Quote: I sleep with a girl and we go on 2 or 3 dates and convo goes like this
Hold on, are you saying you sleep with a girl then go on 2 or 3 dates without sleeping with them again?
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Aug 03, 2016 1:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." t |
What either Heywood or Drag said. |
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| Author: | Jimmy Parker [ Mon Aug 22, 2016 10:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A new dilemma: The "I wish I could see you tonight..." t |
I like what you and other guys above me wrote. Those are good ideas. Girls don't want boring dudes who are no challenge, they want MEN who will be unpredictable, funny and non horny creeps. That's why those alternative answers should work better. Even if a girl says she's tired, there's always a little bit more energy to come over and bang... You just need to know how to make that switch in they're brains. |
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