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Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
I have had the strangest encounter of my whole career so far and i'm confused as fuck. There's been this really hot chick at work which i've known about for 3 months but never took the initiative to talk with. When we did it was more on a professional level then anything. Anyhow, i was moved to another desk at work today and ended up sitting next to her. Saw she was tired as fuck and started a normal conversation, I found out she has got another job as a model and that she's a single mother.

Anway, eventually when the day passed by i started negging the living fuck out of her because i already figured out that she's the bitchy type of girl and it paid off. She eventually got a bit more physical and started poking me and sending me mails with random shit where i continued negging her.

Went on to go outside for a smoke and came back in, finding a paper on my desk saying ''hello there ;) xx'' which caught me by surprise. Decided to join the game and sent her a message myself telling her we should go out in the weekend. She told she couldn't because of her kid and when i told her she's free to bring him along she said ''haha silly''. Normally i'd give up here but for some reason i simply knew the situation was too good for her just casually telling me to fuck off so i wrote her another message after saying ''Since you're not interested in a good time out, how about i come over to yours and cook something up for you and your kid''? She replied saying that's really sweet of me and when i told her i could drop by this weekend she wrote back ''OKE!''. We exchanged numbers and i'm texting her right now.

Anyhow, i'm actually in shock that this worked out, i had absolutely not expected to be going to a girls place within an hour of actually meeting her let alone a gorgeous ass model, Worst thing is that i have no clue on how to handle it. I'm thinking about texting her in the meanwhile for just a bit, enough to keep the level up but i think i'll fuck it up somehow. I'm also not used to talking with these type of girls.

What advice would you give me?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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I have had the strangest encounter of my whole career so far and i'm confused as fuck. There's been this really hot chick at work which i've known about for 3 months but never took the initiative to talk with. When we did it was more on a professional level then anything. Anyhow, i was moved to another desk at work today and ended up sitting next to her. Saw she was tired as fuck and started a normal conversation, I found out she has got another job as a model and that she's a single mother.

Anway, eventually when the day passed by i started negging the living fuck out of her because i already figured out that she's the bitchy type of girl and it paid off. She eventually got a bit more physical and started poking me and sending me mails with random shit where i continued negging her.

Went on to go outside for a smoke and came back in, finding a paper on my desk saying ''hello there ;) xx'' which caught me by surprise. Decided to join the game and sent her a message myself telling her we should go out in the weekend. She told she couldn't because of her kid and when i told her she's free to bring him along she said ''haha silly''. Normally i'd give up here but for some reason i simply knew the situation was too good for her just casually telling me to fuck off so i wrote her another message after saying ''Since you're not interested in a good time out, how about i come over to yours and cook something up for you and your kid''? She replied saying that's really sweet of me and when i told her i could drop by this weekend she wrote back ''OKE!''. We exchanged numbers and i'm texting her right now.

Anyhow, i'm actually in shock that this worked out, i had absolutely not expected to be going to a girls place within an hour of actually meeting her let alone a gorgeous ass model, Worst thing is that i have no clue on how to handle it. I'm thinking about texting her in the meanwhile for just a bit, enough to keep the level up but i think i'll fuck it up somehow. I'm also not used to talking with these type of girls.

What advice would you give me?
Bring booze, and condoms.

Don't let the hotness fool you. Single mom's don't have a shit ton of options.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
You don't know what you should do? You are doing exactly what you should do. No need to start changing because she is confirming her interest in you.
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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You don't know what you should do? You are doing exactly what you should do. No need to start changing because she is confirming her interest in you.
Thing is, when it comes down to keeping things good, i'm a wreck. I'm trying not to overanalyze the situation but i'm just not good at keeping it up. When i texted her, i noticed the minute i turned sexual she'd send me back really short messages, if i involved her kid, she went all out. I think in order to build up enough comfort for her not to flake i just gotta follow that road and leave behind the sexual shit till we meet and go for a physical push, i guess she already receives such comments day in day out.
I wrote her 5 minutes ago asking which day to meet, she said she will have to see when she can bring her son to her parents which is another strong indicator that she knows what she wants.

Thing is, If i do fuck up somehow, i do atleast want to learn from my mistakes and move on without having to leave with no clue.
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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I have had the strangest encounter of my whole career so far and i'm confused as fuck. There's been this really hot chick at work which i've known about for 3 months but never took the initiative to talk with. When we did it was more on a professional level then anything. Anyhow, i was moved to another desk at work today and ended up sitting next to her. Saw she was tired as fuck and started a normal conversation, I found out she has got another job as a model and that she's a single mother.

Anway, eventually when the day passed by i started negging the living fuck out of her because i already figured out that she's the bitchy type of girl and it paid off. She eventually got a bit more physical and started poking me and sending me mails with random shit where i continued negging her.

Went on to go outside for a smoke and came back in, finding a paper on my desk saying ''hello there ;) xx'' which caught me by surprise. Decided to join the game and sent her a message myself telling her we should go out in the weekend. She told she couldn't because of her kid and when i told her she's free to bring him along she said ''haha silly''. Normally i'd give up here but for some reason i simply knew the situation was too good for her just casually telling me to fuck off so i wrote her another message after saying ''Since you're not interested in a good time out, how about i come over to yours and cook something up for you and your kid''? She replied saying that's really sweet of me and when i told her i could drop by this weekend she wrote back ''OKE!''. We exchanged numbers and i'm texting her right now.

Anyhow, i'm actually in shock that this worked out, i had absolutely not expected to be going to a girls place within an hour of actually meeting her let alone a gorgeous ass model, Worst thing is that i have no clue on how to handle it. I'm thinking about texting her in the meanwhile for just a bit, enough to keep the level up but i think i'll fuck it up somehow. I'm also not used to talking with these type of girls.

What advice would you give me?
Bring booze, and condoms.

Don't let the hotness fool you. Single mom's don't have a shit ton of options.
It's not exactly the hotness that blocks me off, it's the fact that i know i have to do things completely different. I had a similar situation when i went to Budapest, met a super gorgeous girl and we danced and had fun, but after an hour or so i just became some boring ass mofo because i had no clue on how to transition because it was completely different then i was used too. I did still stay in touch with her aswell and managed to fix that situation.

Don't forget, i've always been a boring skinny guy with hardly any friends and it's only since 3 months that i have gotten into it, i still have a ton to learn.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
It's also a sign she's not comfortable with you meeting the kid yet.

Nothing wrong with wine and Netflix after the child's bedtime.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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You don't know what you should do? You are doing exactly what you should do. No need to start changing because she is confirming her interest in you.
Thing is, when it comes down to keeping things good, i'm a wreck. I'm trying not to overanalyze the situation but i'm just not good at keeping it up. When i texted her, i noticed the minute i turned sexual she'd send me back really short messages, if i involved her kid, she went all out. I think in order to build up enough comfort for her not to flake i just gotta follow that road and leave behind the sexual shit till we meet and go for a physical push, i guess she already receives such comments day in day out.
I wrote her 5 minutes ago asking which day to meet, she said she will have to see when she can bring her son to her parents which is another strong indicator that she knows what she wants.

Thing is, If i do fuck up somehow, i do atleast want to learn from my mistakes and move on without having to leave with no clue.
You are moving away from the things that drawn her to you. It was about having fun and teasing that got you where you were. Talking about her kid doesn't do too much for you except allowing for her to talk about herself and her life.

I find that taking these sexual verbally/through text is a hit or miss thing. Some girls are open to it and others are not. Those that are not will often back away and then the guy gets the tryhard mentality in order to try to fix it. This is what you're doing. In truth, I think most women prefer innuendo to talking sexually unless the sexual nature of your relationship has already been established. So back off the sexual talk and focus on being the fun and flirty guy that she is used to. Sex will come without having to say a word about it.
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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You don't know what you should do? You are doing exactly what you should do. No need to start changing because she is confirming her interest in you.
Thing is, when it comes down to keeping things good, i'm a wreck. I'm trying not to overanalyze the situation but i'm just not good at keeping it up. When i texted her, i noticed the minute i turned sexual she'd send me back really short messages, if i involved her kid, she went all out. I think in order to build up enough comfort for her not to flake i just gotta follow that road and leave behind the sexual shit till we meet and go for a physical push, i guess she already receives such comments day in day out.
I wrote her 5 minutes ago asking which day to meet, she said she will have to see when she can bring her son to her parents which is another strong indicator that she knows what she wants.

Thing is, If i do fuck up somehow, i do atleast want to learn from my mistakes and move on without having to leave with no clue.
You are moving away from the things that drawn her to you. It was about having fun and teasing that got you where you were. Talking about her kid doesn't do too much for you except allowing for her to talk about herself and her life.

I find that taking these sexual verbally/through text is a hit or miss thing. Some girls are open to it and others are not. Those that are not will often back away and then the guy gets the tryhard mentality in order to try to fix it. This is what you're doing. In truth, I think most women prefer innuendo to talking sexually unless the sexual nature of your relationship has already been established. So back off the sexual talk and focus on being the fun and flirty guy that she is used to. Sex will come without having to say a word about it.
Yeah i prepared myself for the hit and miss situation aswell for the same reason you gave me. Some are open to it while others aren't.. Luckily enough that text that i did sent was open to lots of interpretation so i just casually moved on to a better topic that got good responses like her sending pictures after etc..

Honestly, i think the rapport building through text was gold, i can't really explain it but after exchanging numbers it was still rather stiff between us in a few ways because i most likely didn't act correctly. Despite this, the few texts that i sent before hitting the gym opened things up a lot and gives more room for a better establishment tommorow. If i keep up the same level as i did today, she will under no circumstance bail out on me. Going to the gym put my energy back in place and i'm certain things will go even better tommorow.
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 02, 2016 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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It's also a sign she's not comfortable with you meeting the kid yet.

Nothing wrong with wine and Netflix after the child's bedtime.
I never thought of the wine, that's actually wonderful. My brother gave a party few weeks ago and i still got a couple of good bottles left. Thanks!
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Sat Jun 04, 2016 10:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
Another update on the situation. Went to work today and she was there aswell, this time i decided to sit furthur away from her. A couple of minutes after logging in i receive a mail saying ''hello babe! ;) xx'', we exchange a couple of emails and i asked her about this weekend. She said she had to wait till after 6 pm before she could decide so i just wrote back saying i think it's better to meet up another day and that i'm planning to go out that night. Figured if things were as they should've been, she would have no excuse left.

Anyhow, as the day progressed she asked me to write something on a board for her, called her out for being lazy as fuck and that she should do it for the extra exercise, she passed by me to draw what she needed to do and started poking me again, told her i warned her and just grabbed her ass. Went home a bit later and texted her back and forth again.

I'm keeping texts short, as playful/fun as it can get, but she's always very short on the answers yet still takes initiative to text me, it's a very tough situation for me to judge on. I wonder wether it's the attention she likes or that she's genuinely interested. I do not give her much attention at all except neg & push/pull her all day.

A perfect example of our conversations:

* Her: (Sends me 3 pictures of her full-model mode like 10/10) out of thin air.
* Me: Yeah right, you must have a sister that looks like you.
* Her: No no, haha!
* Me: Mascara suits you well, atleast do the effort to do the same when you come to work.
* Her: I'll make you another one since i'm finished with my shoot anyway :)
* Her: (Sends pic)
* Me: Yeah, not bad. You expecting me to hang them on my wall?
* Her: Hahahahaha
* Me: (Send a pic of myself) - Enjoy
* Her: Will do :) x
* Me: You going out tonight?
* Her: Yeah going to x
* Me: Alright cool, enjoy the night, i'm off aswell.
* Her: Gnight! x
* Her: (Sends me another picture of her)
* Me: (Send her one back of my dog with sunglasses)

End.

It's hard communicating with her through texts, but another problem is getting shit done at work. We have a no flirt/date/we policy so i have to chill down a bit. I honestly figured out today i don't care much about the situation but i really do want to learn to improve my game.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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* Her: (Sends pic)
You: To much shirt on. (Dress/bikini) Whatever.
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We have a no flirt/date/we policy so i have to chill down a bit.
Would your job be in jeopardy?
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* Her: Gnight! x
You: Should I leave the door unlocked?
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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* Her: (Sends pic)
You: To much shirt on. (Dress/bikini) Whatever.
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We have a no flirt/date/we policy so i have to chill down a bit.
Would your job be in jeopardy?
Quote:
* Her: Gnight! x
You: Should I leave the door unlocked?
I'd say exactly the same as this if it weren't for the situation being as it is. Every time i'd give her a response like that she'd message me back with ''hahahaha''. Even though i'd just cut contact, she still texts me first and gives me short answers, i'm confused. I'm not sure what she's after since i'm not being a nice guy, giving compliments or any form of friendzone type shit to make her feel better.

Either i'm extremely bad at pick up, or girls have a strange way of communicating things.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 06, 2016 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
Have you 'sext' with her yet? You say you 'would' do exactly that?
Author:  Pbblade3 [ Thu Jun 09, 2016 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
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Have you 'sext' with her yet? You say you 'would' do exactly that?
Sorry for the late reply, been working overtime and going to the gym every day so haven't had much time.
Things have escalated beyond my imagination, it's been a while since i've pulled something off this succesful.

She started sending short again, i stopped texting all in all. She proceeded messaging me at work and i kept playing along, going for push/pull & negs. Came back home and texted her with some good stuff. She suddenly texted me asking
Her: I wanna ask you a real question.. Are you actually expecting more between us?
Me: You definatly have a good looking butt, but no, i'm not interested in that.
Her: I'm not used to guys being like you this way.
Me: Well, get used to it, it's the way i roll.
Her: I probably shouldn't have asked, i'm sorry. hope things don't change.
Me: As long as you listen nicely, nothing will. (Mascara looks hot af on her, always ask her to put it on at work and she does)
Her: (Sends me a song of ''I'm falling for you'') ''Beautiful song isn't it?''
Me: More like an obvious hint
Her: No no, i just really like the song! You are so cheeky, you really telling me the truth between us?
Me: Actually, i'll tell you a big secret. You ready?
Her: Ok.. Go ahead?
Me: Aight, i'm going to the gym, will be back later and tell you about it after.
Her: (Random wall of text) saying i can't believe i am actually so connected with you, the way you make me feel.. smile, .. never thought i'd get this feeling.

After this conversation things exploded. We texted all the way till 2:00AM and she kept insisting on me coming over this friday to her house, denied it because i am going for a trip to my friends 150 miles away for the weekend. We became very physical at work and she's obviously head over heels, i will meet her on monday however.

I dunno what happend, but having the sheer energy and confidence really made me go hard. The push/pull techniques i managed to pull was beyond what i thought i could do. Things just felt so well placed. I'm really glad things turned out this way and i'm curious how things will escalate. She sent me half a nude aswell, guess it's a start.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 09, 2016 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finally got some results, but no clue what to do next.
Well played. Close that shit!
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