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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 2:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | General issue(too cocky?) |
Hi guys. My journey just began once more! Such a joyful feeling. Now, my question: Im really, like really good with convo(right now im doing online dating). 1)Takes me no time to make them feel comfy. 2)Takes me no time to put sexual attraction. 3)Takes me no time to make them laugh. 4)Takes me no time to make them want me more. It's takes me typically 1-2 days before I'm "real" with phone numbers. I give women the best impression I can give, every single time. Everything is perfect until: -They start testing me(it's important that it not the testfactor, but when the time is passing after the first initiation, like a day or few hours). When I really can feel, the fun and exicting part start to drop(mostly because it feels like they lose interest from high peak). It makes me stressed and I start losing control and I go like: -Needy. -Too cocky. -Too wierd. I keep throwing so many chances away it fucking sucks. How can I fix this? Any good general advice(or articles?) |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 3:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
What tests? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 8:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Women don't test you unless they sense incongruence or faking/posing. It's like a frozen lake. If it's frozen solid you can tell, and will walk on it without hesitation. If it seems like it may crumble at any moment though, you'll tip toe all over it testing whether or not it can handle you. Be authentic. Play what you know are your strengths instead of trying to mimic others. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Could you give some examples of these "tests" ? RC is correct on that women will generally not test you if you are congruent. These "tests" can be better interpreted as her breaking rapport, teasing or flirting with you. You can just break rapport back and then give her a chance to invest again and then reward her. |
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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 11:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Thanks a lot! I really can't give you any examples(I can't put finger on whats going on). It feels like I go from secure guy to a complete shit, simple because I dont hear from them a day or so. The perfect example is: I gave them such a good feeling in the moment, but when time is passing by(let's say 12hour with no communcation), it feels like they lose interest. I can feel that we need to get in touch again, and that makes me uncomfy(because I want the control). Makes me needy and retarded. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 7:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Quote: Hi guys.
Then fucking quit while your ahead. Stop beating a good thing to death, and set up a meet. My journey just began once more! Such a joyful feeling. Now, my question: Im really, like really good with convo(right now im doing online dating). 1)Takes me no time to make them feel comfy. 2)Takes me no time to put sexual attraction. 3)Takes me no time to make them laugh. 4)Takes me no time to make them want me more. It's takes me typically 1-2 days before I'm "real" with phone numbers. I give women the best impression I can give, every single time. I get the vibe, it strokes your ego so much you over do it in the home stretch. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jan 26, 2016 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Quote: Thanks a lot!
Your security just isn't real yet. If a woman able to throw you off your game you're simply just not on her level yet. This will correct itself with experience. Keep approaching, keep getting uncomfortable, and you will develop the stick thick enough to withstand.
I really can't give you any examples(I can't put finger on whats going on). It feels like I go from secure guy to a complete shit, simple because I dont hear from them a day or so. The perfect example is: I gave them such a good feeling in the moment, but when time is passing by(let's say 12hour with no communcation), it feels like they lose interest. I can feel that we need to get in touch again, and that makes me uncomfy(because I want the control). Makes me needy and retarded. |
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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Wed Jan 27, 2016 12:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: General issue(too cocky?) |
Thank you so much. It also feels like experience stuff(now that i have been thinkin of it). Im dead if stuff takes more than 48 hours for me and I feel uncomfy. I'm not used it it, when my goal is to set dates up ASAP(perhabs stuff is not that black/white). |
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