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Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:  How to make her want you as more than a friend with benefits
So here's the deal.
I met a girl a few months ago. We've had sex three times and flirted a bit back and forth on messages. But there's one thing that annoys me. She takes NEVER contact first. She always replies to my messages. And if I ask if she will meet, she always responds yes. But she never asks first for herself! Never sends any message first!

One night we talked on the phone (ofcourse I was the one that called) and I said I began to miss her a bit. She responded then by saying: "you must not do." And we talked on and she said she had not "love feelings" for me, but that she would like to have sex with me.

We talked about ”us” and how things where going, and she also said that "you are so available all the time" .. Which hinted that perhaps we talked a bit much together.

I met her the other day. (Without having sex) And then when she would go out of the car she was totally weird when I did not bother to try to kiss her. She asked astonished if I´m not going to give her a hug? Which I gave her, and then I kissed occasionally, until I bit cocky said "now get out", smiled at her, and pushed her lightly out of the car.

However, I will not only have her as a fuck friend!

How should I proceed now? To make her want me as more than a ”friend with benefits”.

I have "dropped dead" the last two days now. She has however sent me a snap both days, but there is only a picture of a plate of food, and one of her drove past a car accident.
I never responded to these. And have not talked any more with her. Is this the right strategy? And how long should I wait before takeing contact? How to get her to be more emotionally involved? Please come with advice guys! ;)

Truly she is a 10! (So is all my friend saying to) And it does not help that my friends keep saying that I would never meet a girl as pretty as her again! And keep telling me not to fuck this one up.. :?
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
It's the right strategy except you should acknowledge the snaps she's sent you and then go about your business.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 7:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
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It's the right strategy except you should acknowledge the snaps she's sent you and then go about your business.
Ok. By acknowledge you mean I should respond to the snap? (Im from a non-english speaking country) But what to respond when you get a snap of a foodplate? As she surely sent to the rest of her list as well.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 7:17 pm ]
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But what to respond when you get a snap of a foodplate?
"I can not see your boobs in this picture."
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 7:31 pm ]
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But what to respond when you get a snap of a foodplate?
"I can not see your boobs in this picture."
...and then go about your business. It's about acknowledging her so she's willing to keep putting in effort. Effort is investment.

If she's wanting to be treated like a fuck buddy, treat her like one. Once you start doing that she's going to want you to want more from her.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 8:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
Fuck guys.. I sent her a message. I know she was feeling sick two days a go. Si I sent her a message saying "how is my little chicken doing? Got any better?" You said I had to acknowledge her effort when sending snaps...
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 8:49 pm ]
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I'm saying if she sends you a snap of her at the...respond to the snap. The reason she is sending it is because she was thinking about you. Following through on those thoughts is investment. If you don't follow through, the less likely she is going to invest again. It doesn't mean for you to push it into a back and forth conversation.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:17 pm ]
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Fuck guys.. I sent her a message. I know she was feeling sick two days a go. Si I sent her a message saying "how is my little chicken doing? Got any better?" You said I had to acknowledge her effort when sending snaps...
Got the answer. She was getting better, and asked how I was doing. I replaced that I was good and ask if she wanted to join me and watch a movie some day. (and she knows very well what this is going to lead to...)

But here we go again guys. I am doing the reaching out. And she is allways saying yes. But wtf is it going to take to make her be the one to reach out!?
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:27 pm ]
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Fuck guys.. I sent her a message. I know she was feeling sick two days a go. Si I sent her a message saying "how is my little chicken doing? Got any better?" You said I had to acknowledge her effort when sending snaps...
Got the answer. She was getting better, and asked how I was doing. I replaced that I was good and ask if she wanted to join me and watch a movie some day. (and she knows very well what this is going to lead to...)

But here we go again guys. I am doing the reaching out. And she is allways saying yes. But wtf is it going to take to make her be the one to reach out!?
*Facepalm*
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:35 pm ]
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*Facepalm*
I know right.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
Haha! Luxury problem? :P No.. Is the art of seduction just to fuck, so yes, mission acomplised. But if the question here is how to make her chase you. And that, my friends, is quiet a different, and I would say a lot much harder.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:52 pm ]
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Fuck guys.. I sent her a message. I know she was feeling sick two days a go. Si I sent her a message saying "how is my little chicken doing? Got any better?" You said I had to acknowledge her effort when sending snaps...
Got the answer. She was getting better, and asked how I was doing. I replaced that I was good and ask if she wanted to join me and watch a movie some day. (and she knows very well what this is going to lead to...)

But here we go again guys. I am doing the reaching out. And she is allways saying yes. But wtf is it going to take to make her be the one to reach out!?
*Facepalm*
Haha.. :P And btw, she replied yes. "When do you want to meet?"
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
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Haha! Luxury problem? :P No.. Is the art of seduction just to fuck, so yes, mission acomplised. But if the question here is how to make her chase you. And that, my friends, is quiet a different, and I would say a lot much harder.
I don't know how to make it any more simple for you. If you want her to chase you, you have to let her chase you. She is showing signs that she is willing to chase, but you get excited and offer to visit. What incentive does she have to chase if you keep running to her?

Do you know what destroys most FWB relationships? One person starts wanting more than the other. Why don't you man up and let her decide that she wants you more?
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Haha.. And btw, she replied yes. "When do you want to meet?"
Good job. Everything's exactly the same way before you started this thread.
Author:  MrNorth [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to make her want you as more than a friend with bene
I know. I came here to seek advice. But I haven't got any clear advises except from acknowledge her snaps. Of course I can fuck her, but I want here to chase. And the internet does not have any specific topics about threads like this. Thats why I had to reach out. So If any of you have any good advise if you where in my shoes, please speak out =)
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 10:32 pm ]
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I know. I came here to seek advice. But I haven't got any clear advises except from acknowledge her snaps. Of course I can fuck her, but I want here to chase. And the internet does not have any specific topics about threads like this. Thats why I had to reach out. So If any of you have any good advise if you where in my shoes, please speak out =)
You're not getting any advice? LMAO.

I tried. I guess the only person to blame is me, I suppose.
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