PUA Forum :: Stuck: How in the world do I attract girls?!

Its like karate man.

One instructor will tell you that the roundhouse kick is the most powerful kick and the other one will tell you that the axel kick is the most powerful one. You have to decide on an instructor and just go with what he teaches. Theres no real way thats better than any other. Certain things I just find to be for "nerds", but thats their prerogative.

Pick someone you identify with and go with their advice.

What really works is confidence. Its not about what you do in this life its all about how you do it. A roundhouse with the proper form will be stronger than a axel with a weaker form and vice versa.

Just go with something study it thoroughly and go out and practice it until you perfect it.

I read MM, Magic bullets, DYD and numerous other things including blogs and forum posts. Til now I don't know how to generate attraction, I got confused with all these ideas and don't really know where to start anymore.

I read in MM or Magic Bullets stuff like I have to qualify then DHV then i read in another book like Jason Capital's Make Women Want You nothing like it, just normal grooming stuff and other basic stuff more like natural kind of game.

How do YOU attract girls? What method or steps do you do or did as a beginner?

Don't tell me stop reading and just go out and talk to girls because if I actually had no problems doing that I wouldnt have got in this stuff from the first place.

But in terms of your specific predicament, stop reading, turn everything off for about 20 minutes. No phone, no facebook, no music. Just sit with yourself for a bit. Do you feel attractive? Do you truly feel like if you met your dream girl - not just any woman, but really the woman of your dreams. Not only stunningly beautiful but smart, funny, passionate, whatever it is you are looking for in a girl. Do you feel like she would want you too? Not only that but would she be proud of you? would she feel special that she has you?

Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it.

If you dont feel attractive, how could any woman ever be attracted to you? If you saw yourself walking down the street with a stunner, would you look and say "yeah, of course... OF COURSE he has this girl. It only makes sense!"

If the answer is no, why?

When you figure that out, so begins your journey.

I'm here as long as you need help

Your fan,
Mack

Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it.

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Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it.

I have a special place in my heart for those forum members who needlessly quash the accomplishments and dismiss the advice of other members, then say THEY have it all figured out, and they're available if more help is needed... Cause you know, they also coach, and are available for private 1:1s

Sorry man, but as good as you may think you are at this, you have an arrogance and way about how you're showing it that has never sat well with me.

And no, I don't coach. I have nothing to gain by tearing you down... I really mean this to be constructive.

Love and respect,
Charles

Author:	McJeff [ Fri Jun 19, 2015 9:23 pm ]
Post subject:	Stuck: How in the world do I attract girls?!
I read MM, Magic bullets, DYD and numerous other things including blogs and forum posts. Til now I don't know how to generate attraction, I got confused with all these ideas and don't really know where to start anymore. I read in MM or Magic Bullets stuff like I have to qualify then DHV then i read in another book like Jason Capital's Make Women Want You nothing like it, just normal grooming stuff and other basic stuff more like natural kind of game. How do YOU attract girls? What method or steps do you do or did as a beginner? Don't tell me stop reading and just go out and talk to girls because if I actually had no problems doing that I wouldnt have got in this stuff from the first place.

Author:	R.C [ Fri Jun 19, 2015 9:38 pm ]
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Aright, first thing's first. Step1. Forget all that bullshit MM and whatever else you read. It has some, emphasis on some, good concepts but they are far in between. Step2. Read Models by Mark Manson. I suggest listening to the audiobook as Mark reads it himself and adds character to it. It's pretty much the one and only book you'll ever need to go over. Step3. Apply what you've read. Go out and practice. You can read all the articles, blogs, forums, books and how to guides on snowboarding, but when you get on that board you will hit the ground. Hard. You may have some knowledge in the back of your head, but you're still a beginner. Knee position and how to hold your hands when turning is something you won't be able to worry about even if you wanted to - because you can barely keep your balance in the first place. That knowledge will not help you at all until you familiarize yourself with the environment. Once you get some practice in though, everything starts making sense and you start connecting the dots. That's when some knowledge will skyrocket your progress. So yeah, read. Read what I suggested and nothing else and then actually go out and apply it.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 19, 2015 11:43 pm ]
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Its like karate man. One instructor will tell you that the roundhouse kick is the most powerful kick and the other one will tell you that the axel kick is the most powerful one. You have to decide on an instructor and just go with what he teaches. Theres no real way thats better than any other. Certain things I just find to be for "nerds", but thats their prerogative. Pick someone you identify with and go with their advice. What really works is confidence. Its not about what you do in this life its all about how you do it. A roundhouse with the proper form will be stronger than a axel with a weaker form and vice versa. Just go with something study it thoroughly and go out and practice it until you perfect it.

Author:	McJeff [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 2:02 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Stuck: How in the world do I attract girls?!
Quote: Its like karate man. One instructor will tell you that the roundhouse kick is the most powerful kick and the other one will tell you that the axel kick is the most powerful one. You have to decide on an instructor and just go with what he teaches. Theres no real way thats better than any other. Certain things I just find to be for "nerds", but thats their prerogative. Pick someone you identify with and go with their advice. What really works is confidence. Its not about what you do in this life its all about how you do it. A roundhouse with the proper form will be stronger than a axel with a weaker form and vice versa. Just go with something study it thoroughly and go out and practice it until you perfect it. Thanks for the advice and that is exactly what I am about to do. I picked Make Women Want You by Jason Capital. It is simple and for beginners. I already read Mark Manson's book Models attract women through honesty, the thing is about it is that I kinda disagree with mark's advice and not really convinced. To reach that level of experience which is self actualization isn't easy you got to already have had some experience, Mark himself when he wrote his book for the first time had experience. It is easy to tell someone to do something when you have had experience and think it is easy to achieve while a total beginner wouldnt see or feel that way.

Author:	detox75 [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 4:58 am ]
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If you understood how to DHV properly, that alone would answer your question. I have a feeling you really haven't paid much attention to anything you (sic putatively) read. Read, learn, and practice in the field and you will get it, and improve, just like everybody else, 99% chance you are barely giving any effort and are just venting your AFC frustrations that PUA isn't easy. Bad news - try harder

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Author:	J.Daniels [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 8:07 pm ]
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WELL DONE for reading Jason Capital's material! Don't become one of those "I'm the best at getting a fuck, but I can't hold a relationship down" like 99% of this forum. Go ready Corey Wayne's book - you can get it on Amazon, or find it online for free (Google Corey Wayne Scribd) - read it 10-15 times Read How to Win Friends and Influence People Go out and get experience Focus on improving every area of your life, not just women.

Author:	PatrickAnanda [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 8:44 am ]
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Quote: I read MM, Magic bullets, DYD and numerous other things including blogs and forum posts. Til now I don't know how to generate attraction, I got confused with all these ideas and don't really know where to start anymore. I read in MM or Magic Bullets stuff like I have to qualify then DHV then i read in another book like Jason Capital's Make Women Want You nothing like it, just normal grooming stuff and other basic stuff more like natural kind of game. How do YOU attract girls? What method or steps do you do or did as a beginner? Don't tell me stop reading and just go out and talk to girls because if I actually had no problems doing that I wouldnt have got in this stuff from the first place. Hey brother It took me years to figure this shit out, but the fact is that I will tell you what you dont want to hear: stop reading. I wont say just go out and talk to women though, not when you're in this state. Why? Why does everyone hate the 'be yourself' advice? "I've been 'myself' all this time and it hasnt worked" you will say. But Im going to get a bit in your face and call you out on your bullshit right here and now; You have never been yourself. I'll even bet that you dont know what 'yourself' even is. That is liberating, if you just care to see it! Going on this journey is the most rewarding thing you can ever do with your life, because 99% of all the problems you will ever face will be a result of not knowing who you are. But in terms of your specific predicament, stop reading, turn everything off for about 20 minutes. No phone, no facebook, no music. Just sit with yourself for a bit. Do you feel attractive? Do you truly feel like if you met your dream girl - not just any woman, but really the woman of your dreams. Not only stunningly beautiful but smart, funny, passionate, whatever it is you are looking for in a girl. Do you feel like she would want you too? Not only that but would she be proud of you? would she feel special that she has you? Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it. If you dont feel attractive, how could any woman ever be attracted to you? If you saw yourself walking down the street with a stunner, would you look and say "yeah, of course... OF COURSE he has this girl. It only makes sense!" If the answer is no, why? When you figure that out, so begins your journey. I'm here as long as you need help Your fan, Mack

Author:	J.Daniels [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:34 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Stuck: How in the world do I attract girls?!
Quote: But in terms of your specific predicament, stop reading, turn everything off for about 20 minutes. No phone, no facebook, no music. Just sit with yourself for a bit. Do you feel attractive? Do you truly feel like if you met your dream girl - not just any woman, but really the woman of your dreams. Not only stunningly beautiful but smart, funny, passionate, whatever it is you are looking for in a girl. Do you feel like she would want you too? Not only that but would she be proud of you? would she feel special that she has you? Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it. If you dont feel attractive, how could any woman ever be attracted to you? If you saw yourself walking down the street with a stunner, would you look and say "yeah, of course... OF COURSE he has this girl. It only makes sense!" If the answer is no, why? When you figure that out, so begins your journey. I'm here as long as you need help Your fan, Mack Jesus Christ

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 1:48 pm ]
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Quote: Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it. I have a special place in my heart for those forum members who needlessly quash the accomplishments and dismiss the advice of other members, then say THEY have it all figured out, and they're available if more help is needed... Cause you know, they also coach, and are available for private 1:1s Sorry man, but as good as you may think you are at this, you have an arrogance and way about how you're showing it that has never sat well with me. And no, I don't coach. I have nothing to gain by tearing you down... I really mean this to be constructive. Love and respect, Charles

Author:	J.Daniels [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 4:01 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Most guys in this industry are like dogs chasing a car - they have no idea what they would do with it if they ever caught it. I have a special place in my heart for those forum members who needlessly quash the accomplishments and dismiss the advice of other members, then say THEY have it all figured out, and they're available if more help is needed... Cause you know, they also coach, and are available for private 1:1s Sorry man, but as good as you may think you are at this, you have an arrogance and way about how you're showing it that has never sat well with me. And no, I don't coach. I have nothing to gain by tearing you down... I really mean this to be constructive. Love and respect, Charles I thought his post was an eye-opener, but I did sense the arrogance and felt his inner Adam Lyons coming out "Ignore all of these crappy PUA's, me and my friend have been working on a product that's perfect for your specific situation" lol

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