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Author:  Tan5456K [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching done..what next?

I've joined about a month ago. I found the direction opener quite comfortable. So i pretty much ask about 50% of girls for the direction to a nearby famous location and then thats it. I never know what to say next. Any suggestions?

Also, today on my way to work, I saw a HB walking ahead of me. So I paced up and crossed ahead of her and then casually looked back at her. I stared at her long enough for her to notice me.
Me: Are you the guitarist of blah band?
She looked at me like a bug.
Me: You are the guitarist of blah band, right?(taking out a pen from my pocket)can i have your autograph?
Her: No I am not.
Me: Well you sure do look like her..(i dunno at which point we resumed walking)
Me: You sure must still be interesting (this line came out as a squeak & i'm sure she didn't hear it.
Me: So you go to blah college?(we were very close to a local college and she was obviously going there)
She nodded yes.
Me: Commerce?
She nodded yes.
Do you have any hobbies?
She: (playing with her hair & no eye contact whatsoever) No.
Me: I am a guitarist.
She nodded yes.
I got pissed off by these one worded answers and excused myself and paced ahead of her.

After 5 mins of walking I saw a cute girl that i had seen many times but never even had the guts to smile at. She was walking in the different direction today.
Me: You are walking in a different direction today.
She looked at me. I pointed to the other direction & said, " I've seen you many times on that road." She nodded yes.
Me: So where are you going today?
Her: That road was towards my college and today i'm going somewhere else.
Me: College? I've always thought u used to go to work. (Shit!)
Me: Commerce?
Her: No, maths science. ( i have no idea what that is)
Then she suddenly said "Here" & walked towards the other side of the road. I followed her. It was raining & i guess she was avoiding puddles. Then as i tried to gather myself, she repeated the process. This time i did not follow her, excused myself and walked ahead.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching done..what next?

Good job you faced your fears and talked to two girls. It get easier Bro. Killing it when it didn't go anywhere is good. Your confidence was a little low... so you petered out. So what keep it up.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching done..what next?

Her: No, maths science. ( i have no idea what that is)
Ask 'what the hell is that?'

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching done..what next?

Sounds like you're doing the outside work far before the inside work has been taken care of.

Asking a woman for her autograph is subconsciously putting her above you. Of course to YOU it is a joke, but women are going to absorb multiple aspects of everything we say. They'll take the job part, but they'll also absorb the words on a few other levels. Men are linear. Its either Hot or Not. Women are a bit more "spacey" with the way they digest social information.

This is two approaches though man.

How long have you been doing this? And how many approaches have you gotten done?

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