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Author:  takky [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 7:16 am ]
Post subject:  verbal structure for instadate
I'm taking numbers but I wanna try to go for instadate the next time.

I'm wondering what to talk about. I watched The Pimp and interview mode really works good when I approach. However when I go to a Starbucks should I talk about something specific? Should I tell her my lifestory or use some routines like The Cube?

And should I pay for her?
Author:  WillEdward [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 7:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: verbal structure for instadate
Qualify her and talk about topics or events in her life that interest her. Reward her with a relevant statement, build a commonality and escalate, then follow up with another open-ended question that will get an emotional response. "Why did you do that?" "How did that make you feel?" "Tell me more...", etc. Don't tell her your life story because you will be qualifying yourself. You can tell some information about yourself, but it is better to be vague and leave a little mystery in case she starts asking you questions so you can start rewarding her with personal information about yourself. I wouldn't recommend using other people's routines. It's better to develop your own as you gain experience in the field.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: verbal structure for instadate
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I'm taking numbers but I wanna try to go for instadate the next time.

I'm wondering what to talk about. I watched The Pimp and interview mode really works good when I approach. However when I go to a Starbucks should I talk about something specific? Should I tell her my lifestory or use some routines like The Cube?

And should I pay for her?
Your best way to make a conversation is to LISTEN to what she's saying, and be CURIOUS about her.

You know curious right? It's when you're genuinely interested in a person.

What does she do?
Goes to school - what kind? What made her chose that school?
She works as an accountant - what made her go into accounting? Does she have dreams other than that?

Of course, you are curious, but not too curious at the same time. Just as you would be with an old friend.

Happy to see her, and just want to know more.

Cube is cool for later in the conversation. Women love it. I use it, and suggest you do as well - but save it
up as a desert for later on.

And as for paying for her - if you can afford it. If not, just allow her to take care of herself. Don't try to be
the "man" with everything. Although women like if a guy pays for something, it doesn't have to be
something much. Coffee is cool.
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