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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Tue May 12, 2015 5:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
Occasionally, ill run into a girl who will only talk about herself and seem disinterested in talking about me. doesnt really ask questions, etc. Is this a young girl thing/lack of social skills on their half? like if they go out with me multiple times, i assume interest. or is it me not coming off as interesting somehow? so they dont really take interest in having a more normal 50/50 conversation |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Tue May 12, 2015 5:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
It's actually good if a girl does most of the talking because she is qualifying herself and investing more in the interaction. You should reward her answers and build commonalities with her and ask deeper questions to get more emotional investment. Eventually she may start asking you questions. Everybody's favorite topic is themselves so let them talk about themselves. That's funny you asked this question as I just made a blog post about this very topic. You can check it out in my signature. |
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| Author: | Mastermind9000 [ Tue May 12, 2015 7:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
If a girl is talking to you that is good, period. If a person is nervous because they like someone then their mind is going a million billion miles an hour and they yammer on about whatever floats to the top (likely them or a interest they have). If they are babbling on to no end then relax and enjoy. That is your window into them. Remember in PUA they teach not to get nervous and ramble on about yourself... well... girls aren't puas and so they do what WE call mistakes. The ENTIRE point of what we learn is to get girls talking about themselves, just take a real interest in what she is saying. Play the fascinated child role and reward her with Kino until she calms down to the point where she realizes she is motormouthing and turns interested in who you are. All is good man. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Tue May 12, 2015 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
Quote: Occasionally, ill run into a girl who will only talk about herself and seem disinterested in talking about me. doesnt really ask questions, etc.
I actually laughed when I read this post. My man, welcome to the world of women. It's about HER most of thetime, about what she wants, how she's like, the kind of stuff she likes... If you're looking for a partner, it's a good sign of the kind of a woman you DON'T want. If you're looking to have some fun, what can I say, go for it. If you do bump into a woman who is actually interested in you, what you're about, then you'll have somebody to hang out with on more than just a physical level. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed May 13, 2015 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
Nothing is 50-50 in life man. Even a coin could potentially land on its edge. If you want to talk about yourself, you have to talk about yourself. Have some command. What is she going to? Just start talking over you to begin talking about herself? Although I prefer to talk about things, ideas, events etc. I don't really have an interview back and forth thing of talking about myself and her self. I let those things come up naturally . And I'm more concerned with who a woman is than i am concerned about what she has done. I try to connect with their views, and there foundation by listening to their views and opinions on ideas and/or there views on my views. You have to have command. Repeat it to yourself 100,000 times. " I have command ". When a woman becomes curious about you she will ask you about you without stopping. Her talking about herself won't even be on her mind. That interview kind of talk is usually just a result of a lack of chemistry. And this is why I always CALL or FACETIME a girl before meeting her in person. I'm not wasting time if I don't have to. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed May 20, 2015 6:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
People love the sound of their own voice. And talking about themselves puts them in a position to get validated. Who doesn't like that? You should be glad she's doing most of the talking. It's easier for you to get a feel of who she is and decide whether or not you like her. |
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| Author: | T.R. [ Sat May 23, 2015 5:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls not asking questions/interest in talking about me |
Let her invest. Just be sure to respond appropriately to what she says. IOD's when she says something you don't like, and IOI's (sparingly) when she says something that makes her stand out. Escalate just as you would if you were splitting the convo 50/50 |
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