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Author:  Skeleli [ Mon May 11, 2015 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
Hey guys,

A little background: this girl I've known who she is, she knows who I am but we never talk. I've always had her on my Facebook somehow and I usually see her on the same bus that I take to school. So we have a little acquaintance and I think she is attractive. Important thing to consider, this girl is Arab and so am I. However none of us is religious at all.

I spoke to this girl on Facebook, opening via the game "Pirate kings" (Which is really popular here in Sweden) all I wrote was: "Alright alright I'm sorry I won't steal your cash" after she revenged my island like 3 times in row. From there I started with the small talk. The second day I wrote to her again and asked for her Snapchat, in both conversations we asked questions to each (Not interview mode at all, she seemed interested in knowing as well) and after like 3 days (Today) I sent her a picture on snap chat.

Her responses were all pictures (selfies) with good light etc, trying to look good for the camera. From my own experience girls who aren't interested or see you as nothing more than a friend would just send a picture of a wall or something. I may be wrong though but it's something to consider.

The conversation went as follow:
Me: Great weather, don't you think?
Her: Noo, the weather is too bad :|
Me: Stop being so negative..
Her: Haha jk but a little more sun wouldn't hurt (Sun emoji)
Me: for sure, what are you doing *her name*? :)
Her: Not much tbh, just came home from school wbu?
Me: What? Now?
Her: Haha yess (Gun emoji) <- as in shoot myself in the head or something
Me: Well I want to get to know you better :)
Me: how about a walk someday?
Her: I have a lot of studies exams etc
Her: and I'm not that type of girl who
Her: Meets boys randomly
Me: I don't meet girls randomly too <-- a little smirk in my pic
Me: So how would one meet you then?
Her: Haha I don't even know how to meet me myself..
Her: I'm kidding, hopefully it will occur :) <-- big smiles in both pictures, probably got my "joke"
Me: Well I understand, I don't want
Me: you to do something you don't want
Me: I'm arab myself so I know where you are coming from
Her: haha It's good that you understand! (OK hand sign emoji)

From there I didn't answer, I just opened the snap. So how would I proceed from there? This girl isn't 100% bullshitting when she says she doesn't meet boys randomly, but there is probably some lies in it.

Is there something I could do or should I move on?

Best regards
Author:  JackZero [ Mon May 11, 2015 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
The fact that she is not offering you any type of hope in actually meeting after giving you excuses for why you shouldn't meet, is definitely a sign that she has absolutely no interest. You can always try and not be the random boy and speak to her when you see her on the bus and try to see if you can spark an attraction in person.
Author:  Skeleli [ Mon May 11, 2015 7:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
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The fact that she is not offering you any type of hope in actually meeting after giving you excuses for why you shouldn't meet, is definitely a sign that she has absolutely no interest. You can always try and not be the random boy and speak to her when you see her on the bus and try to see if you can spark an attraction in person.
So are you suggesting that I should stop messaging her at all (Unless she does first) and speak to her incase I see her in real life?
Author:  JackZero [ Mon May 11, 2015 7:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
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The fact that she is not offering you any type of hope in actually meeting after giving you excuses for why you shouldn't meet, is definitely a sign that she has absolutely no interest. You can always try and not be the random boy and speak to her when you see her on the bus and try to see if you can spark an attraction in person.
So are you suggesting that I should stop messaging her at all (Unless she does first) and speak to her incase I see her in real life?
Yes.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed May 13, 2015 5:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
I agree with Jack.

You're investing a bit too much. Just a bit.

You have to pull back a bit. I believe there is a slight chance that she'll reopen you if you give it a few days. but he's right. There probably was interest at some post and then it slowly faded. Just because a girl liked you yesterday doesn't mean she'll like you today if you don't maintain your frame.

All previous hints at old interest are obsolete.
Author:  Drexel Scott [ Wed May 27, 2015 8:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejected my "meet-up" offer, how to proceed?
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The fact that she is not offering you any type of hope in actually meeting after giving you excuses for why you shouldn't meet, is definitely a sign that she has absolutely no interest. You can always try and not be the random boy and speak to her when you see her on the bus and try to see if you can spark an attraction in person.
Seconded. Or...thirded, as the case may be.

Girls who are interested will either make an effort to see you or be receptive to your attempts to see them. There are outliers of course but 95%* of the time that's the case.

*calculated using all of the latest scientific methods
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