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| Author: | FeaganMox [ Sun May 03, 2015 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to stop killing myself in conversation |
So ive gotten down how to approach girls. At least if its a single girl in a non-dense area. Now when i see a girl i want to talk to i just walk up and say something but really it doesnt lead anywhere. So today i approached like this. I approached the girl and said "uhh hey" She had ear phones on so i tapped her and she kinda jolted back so i jolted back and then she started smiling and took off the ear phones. I put my hands up and was like "dont hurt me please" (it was a small indian girl). So i said something like "You scared me! I just saw you and i wanted to introduce myself. I'm (name)" So i kinda went to the side front of her and shook her hand. She told me her name but i forgot. So she was still walking and i was walking with her (on her left) and she walked to the right. My first though was that she wanted to go away from me so i just said "so yeah ill see you around" and she smiled and said "for sure" I felt stupid after because i realized she went to the right because if she went to the left she would be going in a circle. I did this before to another girl and i did the same thing. I keep killing the conversation because im thinking they arent interested and i simply forget to ask for their number. So i dont thin its that i dont know what to say but i just forget to say it. Any help on how to stay focuseD? |
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| Author: | ASmooth90 [ Sun May 03, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
It seems like you're failing because your energy is too low. You're approaching, but merely leaching energy from the girl, rather than giving value. You should enter a set at a slightly higher energy level than the target is feeling. So if she's relaxing on a park bench, you're a bit buzzed because you just did a light jog. If she's out walking, you're super excited because your best friend is getting married. the substance of your words matters less than your energy and your vibe. Sets will hook faster if you can bring their energy up. Everyone likes the fun, enthusiastic guy. Emotional transference is real. Make yourself genuinely excited about something, and she will feel that excitement too. Number close is easy when you have a good vibe. The number is not a big deal, and keep talking to her after she gives it to you, don't just leave. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sun May 03, 2015 4:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
Meet her up again and ask for her number at the end of the conversation . If you didn't number close on the very first encounter it doesn't mean you screwd up . Some might say it's even better since you show you're not needy and you don't care that much about number closing . |
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| Author: | FeaganMox [ Mon May 04, 2015 8:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
Quote: Meet her up again and ask for her number at the end of the conversation . If you didn't number close on the very first encounter it doesn't mean you screwd up . Some might say it's even better since you show you're not needy and you don't care that much about number closing .
Well i would but i don't know most of the girls i talk to. I just introduce myself in the street. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Wed May 06, 2015 12:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
Keep doing what you're doing then eventually you'll remember . When you set a goal that is harder than just talking to a girl like taking her out on a date or something eventually you'll have to get her number . |
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| Author: | Chris Bale [ Thu May 07, 2015 3:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
You got the opening down in my opinion. Its simple and natural so well done...most guys will never even understand that part. What i will say is that, it seems as though you arrive to a girl, dont say much and expect them to carry it all. You have 3 jobs... Open Be curious about her (asking her about herself and finding out cool things) Arrange a date and get her number if YOU liked the interaction. Thats it. Your doing great. Keep it simple! |
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| Author: | T.R. [ Sat May 23, 2015 5:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop killing myself in conversation |
Need higher energy for sure. Practice pacing her. Basically if she was walking, just walk faster than her and turn back and talk to her over your shoulder. Once you get her attention you should be infront of her, looking back, and matching her pace if not faster. If she speeds up her pace to catch up to you, you're in. If after a second she has not put any effort to catch up to you, then stop and see if she stops. If not, cut it and open the next girl. If she doesn't stop, a lot of times I would recommend pushing the interaction, however that is going to take a bit deeper game than what I'm hearing from your post. Good luck bud, and happy sarging. |
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