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| Author: | JohnCC [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 4:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How much should I text/see her? |
I like this girl I share halls with at university. We live Literally 30 seconds away, and I get some IOIs from her (she recently split with her long term boyfriend). We usually text everyday. But as I've been seeing her a lot more often recently (like nearly everyday, sometimes twice a day), I've been trying to cut down the texting to only arrange meeting up. Is this the right way to go about it? Also, how often should I be meeting her? Does every day come across as needy? |
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| Author: | Spacevolt [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 5:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How much should I text/see her? |
well she is probably trying to fill that void, that space that she no longer has with her ex. and now you seem to be the one taking over. i will say to text her often but do not reply right away you should have things to do, do not be too available. and also depends on what you want, seems like if you see her too often she is gonna start trying to treat this as a relationship. i do not see neediness from you, but from her. usually girls do not tend to be all over a guy unless they do not have nothing to do, or really like him. but in this case seems like its the ex. but like always move it forward, thats the only way you will know if you will get what you want. |
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| Author: | JohnCC [ Thu Apr 23, 2015 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How much should I text/see her? |
The thing is, I do like her and would like it as a relationship. I also know I'm not the only guy she's seeing, but she does see more a lot more than the other guys. By move it forward, what do you mean? Due to exams I'm only going to be seeing her in days for the next month, so it will be harder to physically escalate. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Sat Apr 25, 2015 1:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How much should I text/see her? |
Theres no real rules to this. It's all dependent on your ability to maintain your leadership frame while being exposed to her as much as you are. People live together and see each other everyday and it works sometimes and sometimes it doesn't. Its all dependent on how capable you are at handling your emotions. I dated my next door neighbor when I was around your age. We saw each other everyday and she had also just gotten out of a relationship at the time. We rode out for 5 months and then shit just got hectic. If you can handle it you'll be straight. Are you guys having sex? |
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