talk more flirtatious ? Any example ? Whenever I get the chance and talk about the us mentality she changes subjects .She keeps repeating as clearly as possible she won't date me
.I need something more intense than simple flirtatious talk
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 9:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | kino getting rejected |
I am not getting rejected , the kino is . If i raise my arm , she assumes i want to touch her ( even though i don't always mean to ) and takes a step back or tells me not to touch her . HELP ! |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 9:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Does "she" mean just one girl? If yes, it's probably an issue just for that girl. If no, you need to give more details of your interaction with women. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 9:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Just one girl , i am close to and like . I guess I want to break the friendzone . |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 11:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Is she attracted to you? If not, you are skipping the initial step of having her see you as an attractive person. Flirtatious kino will only work if she can picture herself kissing you. So if she is not seeing you as attractive, back it up one step and make your talk more flirtatious and your kino more friendly so she can get used to your touch while she is able to visualize herself kissing you. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
talk more flirtatious ? Any example ? Whenever I get the chance and talk about the us mentality she changes subjects .She keeps repeating as clearly as possible she won't date me .I need something more intense than simple flirtatious talk
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| Author: | ChocolatePUA [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 6:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Quote: talk more flirtatious ? Any example ? Whenever I get the chance and talk about the us mentality she changes subjects .She keeps repeating as clearly as possible she won't date me
.I need something more intense than simple flirtatious talk You need to start chasing other women, and not get caught up on one girl who is outright rejecting you. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 8:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Quote: talk more flirtatious ? Any example ? Whenever I get the chance and talk about the us mentality she changes subjects .She keeps repeating as clearly as possible she won't date me
So she's rejecting you and and somewhere in your mind the logical step is to turn up intensity. You don't understand how people work. Once someone makes a decision, they are going to stick to that decision unless they believe that they are changing their mind and not you convincing them. Your "more intense" approach is going to make her push you away more intensely. .I need something more intense than simple flirtatious talk You really need to address the fact that you think she's not rejecting you and instead rejecting your kino when she has told you on multiple occasions that she won't date you. She rejected you along with your kino. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Dude , give me a solution . Trust me , I am still on her mind .. she has strong emotions for me ... I need to channel it into love .
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 11:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Quote: Dude , give me a solution
You need to give some details of what's actually happening. So far, all you have given is the description of a delusion. What makes you think you are on her mind and has strong emotions for you? You've left something really important out and I don't know what it is. You can't get a solution unless there is a clear understanding of the problem.
. Trust me , I am still on her mind .. she has strong emotions for me ... I need to channel it into love . |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 11:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Move on |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Yes, you should move on and game other girls. If you still want to get with this girl don't contact her for a few weeks. Once you have more of an abundance mentality and have enough female friends or girls you're talking too, then invite her out to an event where you have preselection and start over and game her normally. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Ok you're right I should give out more info . Basically , I am one of her closest friends and her closer friends ( just 2 )are either far from us or out of the country .She can't spend a day without talking to me or texting me soo basicaly avoiding her for one week would give herthe idea she did something wrong because she would probably text me and I wouldn't answer . She says I am very funny and I am very nice to her ( some of the only people ) but thinks I am unatractive and I am not smart enough ( I have pretty bad grades ) .We were playing once and i hurt her ,she injured my arms with her nails and I blead for a day . She appologised when she noticed but comon she definitly doesn't hate me , why would she do that if she doesn't feel such strong emotions or something . ( the more I elaborate the more you guys bash me , please be nice ) I didn't care about her initially but I've got so used to her that I really can't move on .
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 4:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Quote: Ok you're right I should give out more info . Basically , I am one of her closest friends and her closer friends ( just 2 )are either far from us or out of the country .She can't spend a day without talking to me or texting me soo basicaly avoiding her for one week would give herthe idea she did something wrong because she would probably text me and I wouldn't answer . She says I am very funny and I am very nice to her ( some of the only people ) but thinks I am unatractive and I am not smart enough ( I have pretty bad grades ) .We were playing once and i hurt her ,she injured my arms with her nails and I blead for a day You are what is known as an orbiter. You're the guy friend that is always around and any guy that she is with complains about because he knows what you really want no matter what she says. Women feed off the attention that they get from their orbiters and do not have to give anything back in return. The fact that she finds you unattractive is bad, but at the same time unintelligent makes it impossible for you to get her. It's harsh, you don't want to hear it, but move on.
. She appologised when she noticed but comon she definitly doesn't hate me , why would she do that if she doesn't feel such strong emotions or something . ( the more I elaborate the more you guys bash me , please be nice ) I didn't care about her initially but I've got so used to her that I really can't move on . |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 5:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
what can I do to stop staying an orbiter in general ?What can I do next time so i I don't endup in the same situation ? I just read about this , why can't I just say I've been friendzoned ? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 6:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kino getting rejected |
Jack's 100% right. Tips to avoid being an orbiter in the future include: - Don't do anything to make yourself seem like her girlfriend or one of her girlfriends - Establish yourself as a sexual option as soon as possible - Don't do her favors, drive her places, etc out of the kindness of your heart |
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