Last Thursday I visited my best friend in the town where he study. There I approached HB8 on street. When I added her to facebook it took nearly 30 seconds then she accepted friend invitation. Also after 30 more fucking seconds she liked a photo of me that was sooooooooo old, that i assume she had to scroll a lot to find it. All the chat went good, when she had to go and after telling me "Bye" she added " Good luck with pick-up". I was so surprised, but i played cocky and cool guy, so just answered "Thank you". We chat everyday 'till now.
The important things i have to tell you are:
1. Her brother told her a lot about pick-up. Sadly he described her things like Routines, negs and so on in wrong way.
2. She has boyfriend that is living in the town where I STUDY, actually 10 minutes far from my place.
3. The town where I study and her boyfriend lives is farther than where I live...
4. 'till today she invest a lot in talking with me. - She texts something I don't answer 5 minutes, she writes 2-3 lines more, then I answer her with short sentences and she replies back.
5. She's sending me hugs (The origin is that the third day when we texted before replying her goodbye, I asked her "Don't you forget something? - What? - Think about it? - Good Night ? - Where's my hug for good night - *hug* ). I mean I don't need to remind her anymore
So the good news are that on our third day texting I explained her, what's the purpose of pick-up, that it's about building skills, improve people's personality and so on, instead of just blowing girl's mind with routines, storries and "tools" like walking playlist with "seduction" folder set on repeat. So as much we talked about it, she said that she now has totally different point of view about pick-up (in good way). Also today she offered me to be my wing.
While chatting today, I asked her:
- Do you like red wine?
- Yes
- Chocolate?
- Of course
- Nah, too bad
- Why ?
- My favorite combination is red wine + chocolate + aromatic candle + that type music (previously I sent her erotic chill-out song) + nice company
- What chocolate do you prefer?
- I'm not chocolate expert, I'm chocolate maniac... well i like chocolate with nuts.
- Oooo.. me too, but it shall be dark too. Bla bla bla ( the chocolate topic)
- ARE YOU SERIOUS?
- Bla bla bla (just she wrote little bit slower than me)
- I LOVE NESTLE DARK CHOCOLATE WITH NUTS. It's so cool... like melting in your month... and then take a little sip of Merlot or Mavrud. Candle lights the room.. giving softness and romance...music makes you relax and forget your problems and your mind.. like you are really in full relax.... Yeaah, and when you have company to talk with to have fun.. making laugh... feeling the heat of the other side...
To bad that you don't fit in that picture...
- Why I don't fit in the picture?
- Well, you know... you are in *her city, I am in *the city study*.. who knows when I'll go there again...
- And I have boyfriend who lives 10 minutes far from you
. Differently I go to *city i study* at least once per month..- Well, when you come here next time we can work something out. But I don't promise
- How can we work this out. I am going to stay at my boyfriend.
- Well, to bad that you don't fit in the picture (may be i shouldn't repeat this agian)
Then I changed topic...
Also when we talked about our favorite sex positions Instead of giving names of mine I described them like " You know.. You are laying down, I'm above you and take your legs... "
So next time she's going to call me, when her parents are not close to her, cause they will ask her questions, and we both admit that voice talking is better than text one.
Sorry for that long topic, may be it's boring and you won't read it whole, but i think it's important to put that much details. Just can't figure out how to attract her that mutch, because negs and some DHV things don't work, because she is aware of them (thank's to her brother). Of course I don't push myself too hard to impress her or seduce her, just don't want her feel Ok with that chats instead of gaining attraction and sexual interest. Also I use multi-threading so i jum forward and backward from to topic.
Any advices? I am not that needy of that girl, just don't want another story like that with not a solution.