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| Author: | skibum_99 [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 11:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | chatting nonsense |
This is my first post for advice, I hope this makes sense. Last night I was in a bar. I was actually quite hung over, gaming wasn't really on my radar. However, without really trying, I said hi to a girl and we very quickly got into conversation about my accent. Then the conversation continued... we talked about skiing, snowboarding, summer sports, where we were from in the UK, travelling and most interestingly of all, university courses. She revealed to me that she studied furniture design mainly because she loved the smell of wood being cut. From that point on she let loose about it all, I mean she was talking what to me seemed like jibberish about furniture. When I teased a little about being a furniture geek she agreed with me telling me whilst grabbing my arm and pulling me a little that her friend often have to drag her away for seeming a little crazy when she goes on about this. Anyway, after this chat my friends decided they were going to move on to another bar and there was no way I was staying out for more drinks, I had a lot of sleep to catch upon and yet another early morning to follow. I felt I had read some good signs from this conversation but I had no idea where to go with things next or how to close at all. As left it was somewhat of an it was really nice to meet you, maybe we'll see each other on the mountain tomorrow. I'm trying not to leave these things down to chance so here are my questions. Am I right in thinking my rapport building was going in the right direction? Rather than getting a girls details as I'm leaving, this makes me feel a bit awkward, should I be aiming to get them at any point when we discover we have mutual interests. If she is talking away about things I don't get and grabbing me is that a sure fire way of her showing me she's interested? What would you have done in this situation? Be honest, hey be brutal. I know the answers should be fairly obvious, I'm just after some feedback on what I think was a missed opporunity |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 11:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chatting nonsense |
To be brutally honest, you seem like a coward. How hard would it have been to ask for her phone number or ask her to go to the next bar with you and your friends? Even better yet, give her the option of phone number or bounce. This is a problem for a lot of guys, not just you. Seemingly so happy just to get a girl to talk to them that they are afraid to ask anything of them because they fear rejection that would kill that good feeling. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chatting nonsense |
How on earth do you have an interaction like that and not ask for a number? Even if you see her on the mountain tomorrow, she won't be nearly as interested in you as she was the night before... if for no other reason than you didn't act interested in her by getting her number. |
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| Author: | skibum_99 [ Sat Mar 07, 2015 5:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chatting nonsense |
Cheer for the feedback. You're both probably right. In retrospect I'm actually quite happy with my mid game, just need to practice taking it to the next level. |
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