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Author:  psiconauta [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 1:33 am ]
Post subject:  Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a bf
Ok , im pretty fucking pissed.

I work out at this local gym. I went today and saw a cute girl who was working out too.
After a while I realized she was looking at me (with my peripheral vision) so after a while I started experimenting with my excercise ; I was lifting some weights and she was doing the same thing, so I started doing the reps at her same speed and after she realized that she started trying too fool me by stopping in the mid air.

After a while I opened, she was receptive, good eye contact. We talked for a bit, I made her laugh and giggle, I bantered her and after just a min of talking she told me she played guitar (im a guitarist) and I started talking about that and we started talking. Then I said "you should jam with me... if you can jam" and she was like "I can!" and I answer with "I have to see that." and left.

I continued with my routine, after some minutes we engaged in conversation again. We were talking about some song that was playing at that moment and there were 2 of these big rubber balls that are used for abs. So I told her to take one of them, I took the other one and said "Make that ball touch the ground for every beat of this song" so we went, at 1st she was like going too fast and I negged her with a smile. Then she started doing it pretty good and I out of nowhere throw my ball agaisnt hers and she laughed. I said "Ok Ill let you jam with me" and touched her head in the top. She laughed.

I told her "Hey Ive already finished" and she ; "oh you did?, Im almost done" so I said "well Im gonna do some extra things, if youre finished by then lets go together by the way" and she said "okay!".

After she finished I was standing around and she stood at my side , in the back like "waiting" so I turned and she made eye contact and said "hey im ready" so I said good bye to the trainer and went with her.

She literally lives next to the gym, so I couldnt do a lot. We talked for a bit and told her that we should jam one of these days and she told me .."yeah, that would be cool" . So, taking into consideration that we were standing in her front door and It was pretty quick to ask her phone (honestly I felt like it was too fast to do that). My final thing was "Im busy tomorrow for a jam, but Im working out at 5pm. lets meet here" and she said "ok, ill see you" and we said bye.

Ive just arrived home, found her on fb (havent added her tho) and just realized she has a BF. Damn. I mean Im not sure if shes interested but damn. A boyfriend, and she hasnt even said anything about him.

Any ideas? any feedback or opinions ? thanks!
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
No reason for you to be pissed. She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend, so don't worry about it.
Author:  CountRedRover [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
You have two options:

1)Play it out like you never discovered she has a bf and see where it goes. She might be wanting to cheat because her boyfriend is boring the fuck out of her. Or...

2) "Let her go, let her go! Turn away and slam the door!"
I'm pretty sure 99 percent of the other users on here will say this.
Author:  psiconauta [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 2:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
Quote:
You have two options:

1)Play it out like you never discovered she has a bf and see where it goes. She might be wanting to cheat because her boyfriend is boring the fuck out of her. Or...

2) "Let her go, let her go! Turn away and slam the door!"
I'm pretty sure 99 percent of the other users on here will say this.

Hey redrover how are you doing? Yeah Im not sure if shes gonna meet me tomorrow at 5pm for working out as we agreed. If I see her, what should I do? try to build more rarpport , kino what? any ideas?
Author:  CountRedRover [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 2:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
Quote:
Hey redrover how are you doing? Yeah Im not sure if shes gonna meet me tomorrow at 5pm for working out as we agreed. If I see her, what should I do? try to build more rarpport , kino what? any ideas?
Hello. I am doing good haha.

-If you see her just be you. Be honest and everything. Like you are working out with your best friend you know. Don't be afraid to say anything to her. Whatever is going through your mind, let it come out your mouth.
-try your best not to be "needy", and "not to care"
-As far as kino goes, I would just high five her. "10 reps! Nice! High five!". When the workout is over, hug her and say "thanks for working out with me. It means a lot." Before you let go of her from the hug, and dont make this an awkward 5 minute hug. Just say "Now get the fuck off me :)" its a little push/pull kino trick.
-Assume she is attracted to you. You want this mindset. Now how do you develop this mindset, look here:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/90432 (yes im linking you to another forum for advice, but just remember this forum is the best pua forum)
-oh yeah. Get her number too. After the workout just hand her your phone and say "Here put your number in my phone"
-or after the workout you could even say "have you ever been to (some food place close to the gym)?" then she'll be like "I was there like 3 weeks ago." then you could use this nlp line and be like "we're both hungry as fuck, a little tired too, you want to go there with me and grab something to eat?" She might say yes, might say no. But given the logistics I think she will say yes.

Now if you don't see her, always look at things on the bright side. For example "It's good she didn't come.. she's probably nervous to be around me because of my giagantic dick." Or whatever other reason would suit you haha. This helps you to "stop caring" and let's you not be as "needy".

Either way. Hope it all works out with you two dude.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Mar 12, 2015 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
so, what happened?
Author:  kalata23 [ Sun Mar 22, 2015 9:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
If you don't care about her relationship, just continue what you've started. Even she mentions her bf it can be, because she doesn't want to cheat you. In my country we like to say "I'm not jealous " in that kind of situations. If you want something with her, just go on and don't get pissed off.
Author:  Myrth [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
Stay cool - play the game, no boyfriend or husbands are of any importance. Just let it roll...
Author:  psiconauta [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened-> she was receptive... just discovered she has a
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so, what happened?
I actually forgot about her and havent see her in about 2 or 3 weeks.

But today I went early to the gym and found her. Ignored her and just when she was finished and almost leaving I looked at her and she said hello, so I said hello from some steps far. She came to me and I said hello and the first thing she said was DAMN. I said "you talk me like that to say hello?" and she laughed and explained she was on a rush for classes. So I asked I should add you on FB so we can arrange to work out together. She said yeah sure, and asked for her name. She gave me her full name.

Ive just discovered that in my country is more acceptable to ask for Fb rather than number, its like more personal. I dont know if this is going somewhere but Id like to hear some opinions.
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