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the right element of attraction to use?
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Author:  felipe89 [ Sun Feb 22, 2015 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  the right element of attraction to use?
generally what is the sequence of elements that should be used in attraction for both someone who knows you and someone who does not?
Author:  Black Phantom [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 11:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: the right element of attraction to use?
The only real element you want to use to create attraction is what I call POLARITY.

It's a philosophy of attraction that if you understand it, you can create attraction with any girl.

So to understand it, polarity is what happens when you put two magnets together. If they are
of OPPOSITE poles, they will by nature attract.

And that what attraction really is, two opposite poles put together.

So if you're talking with a woman, create the opposites in the conversation.

Two basic opposites you want to create is SERIOUSNESS and PLAYFULNESS.

How?

Well let's say the girl studies law, and she's really passionate about law and how the justice
system needs improvements.

That's a very serious conversation, so you want to use POLARITY and use the OPPOSITE of seriousness.

So you say something like, "Yea the justice system really needs improvements, they need to hire
guys like me to make things at least look better..."

You follow?

Let's say you are having a normal conversation, and you want
to make it more sexual.

Instead of saying to her, "Man I would love to grab your tits"

Say,

"You know I'm really enjoying this conversation, but I think it's just not fair that you had to wear
those jeans...I mean I'm all nice and normal and you have to come here being all sexy and nice...
I'm done talking to you"

Make sense?

So when you're talking with women, notice the tone of the conversation and combine it with it's opposite.

If the conversation is too light, make a serious comment to contrast it again.

Some more examples are:

- You approach a woman, and you say "You are really beautiful"...and then you contrast it by saying, "If you
were blonde(or any opposite of her hair color) you'd totally be my type"

- After you approach her and talk to her, accuse her of trying to seduce you, even though you were the
one who approached her.

- Tease her about something she does. If she has big feet, compliment her shoes, and then ask if they
come in women's size as well.

- You're in bed, you're making out and things are hot and heavy, you contrast it by saying, "We shouldn't be
doing this"..and then you kiss her again.

Maybe you can notice the patter which is first appearing serious, and then teasing her.

That is polarity, and that is the most important element you should use when building attraction. There are
others as well, like escalating physically, but the most important one is polarity.
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