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Author:  oxyclean321 [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  texting game, when she doesn't answer
met this girl friday night our interaction was pretty lame NGL but she offered me her number before she had togo.
texted her much later that night saying my name with some funny line, she answers the next day saying you too blah blah and then "i hope you ended up having a good night" i didn't answer because it was the next day.

day after that i send a text something " hey xx, i just saw an SAQ (brand named liquor store) and it reminded me of you." she doesn't respond.

DAY after i text her again with some cocky opener basically saying " are you getting shy on me blah blah"
she responds saying she was busy and ask me again how the rest of my weekend was.... i didn't really know how to be funny/interesting with a question like that so my answer was pretty generic. she replies and tells me about hers. i then say a last message with a "why" question. asking her why the rest of her night was "interesting".
she doesn't answer.

our first encounter was pretty lame, i'm new to pua and TBH i have zero game, i'm just confident and pretty good-looking so girls respond well at first.

do i drop the girl? text her AGAIN tomorrow? call her? shes definitely very good-looking if that helps with anything.
Author:  pickupeasy [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
It seems you're texting just to text. You're not moving forward. Deep down inside, you want her to initiate and say "let's meet up, you seem awesome, I want to find out if you're the shit". She's never going to do that. She's waiting on you to do these things. Basic advice: stop texting nonsense. Text her to meet up. Say " I know this really cool place, I want to show you, are u down saturday night?" That's moving forward.
Author:  Slickwitit [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
Good job on getting the number bro!!

When it comes to text it's the same like talking you have to spark emotions. They yearn for that. Be cautious how you do it. If you're not good at text game do what he said above. DONT TEXT!! Unless you're trying to meet up or really good with words. Otherwise don't do it. Anytime I girl sends me "why?" I shake my head and continue what I'm doing. I have to be really bored to answer a text like that. That's how girls think. You say you're good looking but girls that look half as good as you get hit on twice as much man.

As far as what to do sound like pickupeasy got it down. Try that. Where it goes from there is up to you. And no matter how good she looks don't seem needy.
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
hmmm okay il ask her to come out however ive read alot and the usual consensus is you should build rapport first. i have literally sent 5 texts to this girl.
Author:  Miami_J [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
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hmmm okay il ask her to come out however ive read alot and the usual consensus is you should build rapport first. i have literally sent 5 texts to this girl.
You can create rapport when your with her. I have a friend who has awesome text game. If your one of those people great. If your not like me keep it simple and to the point. 2-3 texts is the max I will do before setting up a date and no further interaction till that date.
Author:  Dr. Spargenator [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 3:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
you shouldn't have texted her again asking if she was being shy with u. and with the last text u sent, why was ur weekend interesting, that is a weird question unless she told you it was interesting. it sounds like your just trying to entertain her. you just seem too interested in her. when you text you don't really have to talk much, let her lead the conversation. naturally shell try to gain approval from you rather than the other way around. and the less you talk, the less it seems like you care. thats what girls want.

if you want advice with the girl. you blew it. get another girl, a better one who can text you in time to have a good conversation.
Author:  wilyone [ Sat Feb 14, 2015 7:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
I concur with pickupeasy.

All 3 of the texts you posted are lame and would turn me off pretty quickly. Telling me you're reminded of me by some store name is showing way too much interest and intensity the first day after meeting.

I think you would benefit from reading a guide on texting.
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Sat Feb 14, 2015 10:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
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I concur with pickupeasy.

All 3 of the texts you posted are lame and would turn me off pretty quickly. Telling me you're reminded of me by some store name is showing way too much interest and intensity the first day after meeting.

I think you would benefit from reading a guide on texting.
haha yeah i agree, I PMed him and he somehow saved the convo.

Mistakes i made- Asking to elaborate over text, gave a shit nickname and not getting to the point quicker.
Author:  Jonx1000 [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 2:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: texting game, when she doesn't answer
Quote:
met this girl friday night our interaction was pretty lame NGL but she offered me her number before she had togo.
texted her much later that night saying my name with some funny line, she answers the next day saying you too blah blah and then "i hope you ended up having a good night" i didn't answer because it was the next day.

day after that i send a text something " hey xx, i just saw an SAQ (brand named liquor store) and it reminded me of you." she doesn't respond.

DAY after i text her again with some cocky opener basically saying " are you getting shy on me blah blah"
she responds saying she was busy and ask me again how the rest of my weekend was.... i didn't really know how to be funny/interesting with a question like that so my answer was pretty generic. she replies and tells me about hers. i then say a last message with a "why" question. asking her why the rest of her night was "interesting".
she doesn't answer.

our first encounter was pretty lame, i'm new to pua and TBH i have zero game, i'm just confident and pretty good-looking so girls respond well at first.

do i drop the girl? text her AGAIN tomorrow? call her? shes definitely very good-looking if that helps with anything.

My text game was shit at one point and I literally I would grab numbers and have my boys text them get em hooked and I would pick them up and do the rest. Now I do it myself because looking through the texts he sent he wasn't saying anything special at all it was actually pretty boring. So now what I do especially when they ask me a question through a text I makeup the most entertaining bullshit that they would NOT expect to keep them interested. If she asks you "How was your weekend?" don't give the typical "Fine" response. Chances are shes texting 10 other dicks saying the same thing. Just be different say something like "Me and my boys we're treated like champions at the club" obviously thats a huge exaggeration and she will know, but at least make it believable and make sure you we're actually there of course. Shit you can even make a day of playing video games and jerking off sound interesting..... just don't mention the jerking off part. Once you get 3-5 texts in be a boss and ask her out via text or better yet call her show her you don't give a fuck. She would actually get thrown off when you call her and it gives her less time to think about saying no when you ask her out.
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