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Author:  psiconauta [ Wed Dec 24, 2014 5:37 pm ]
Post subject:  What I can learn from this? any opinions?

I work out daily at the local gym. Last weekend a random girl entered in the wrong bathroom and I was there washing my hands.

After a couple of days, I saw her again and opened with the bathroom incident. She laughed and we talked in between excercises.

I would do a lot of eye contact, most kino I had from this girl was massaging her arm when I was telling her how I warm up for guitar practice. She let me do it and had a strong eye contact while this was happening.

That same day I asker her out "Hey I took this dog from the streets and Im trying to make him more sociable with people, wanna join us later?" She said "hmm what time?" I replied "at 4".

Her answer was "Im gonna do some xmas shopping so Im not sure If I will be around that time, give me your number and Ill talk to you by SPAM" I didnt remember my number and didnt have my phone (I rarely take it to the gym). So I said "give me your number, Ill call you at 3" I grabbed a paper and a pen from the gyms desk and used her as a desk to write her number.

Called her at 3:20 and she was clearly outdoors (i could tell by the noise). She said "Im still shopping, Ill see you tomorrow". I was cool with that.

Today I arrived late to the gym, and she was alredy finishing her routine. After a while I got close and said hello, give her a kiss on the cheek and we talked just a bit. Then she said good bye and left.

Thing is, I read the gyms list and found her last name (I already knew her name she told me). Just done a quick search on FB and well, she has a boyfriend.

I thought I was showing my interest. Not sure If I did the right thing. But I guess I wasnt do it right because If she perceived my interest she wouldve told me "hey I have a bf" But she hasnt. Do you think my kino was good? considering that in the gym youre surrounded by people? Any tips for future things like these?

Author:  oceanx [ Sat Dec 27, 2014 11:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What I can learn from this? any opinions?

With or without regard to the fact that this girl has a b/f, a girl should know your ultimate intentions without any shadow of a doubt in the first 10 seconds. This has nothing to do with what you say, but rather in the way you are behaving - your body language, eye contact, tonality and overall demeanor.

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