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Author:  psiconauta [ Mon Dec 22, 2014 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
I work out daily at the gym.

Every weekend, the gym swaps the bathrooms, this means the boys bathroom becomes for girls and viceversa, I dont know why. So I was at the mens bathroom and this petite young girl enters why Im washing my hands.
I just said "youre at the wrong one haha" and she looked embarassed and said oh im sorry and went away.

Today I saw her working out and after a while of talking to this guy who is from another country (my language is spanish and this guy was from chicago so I gladly practice my english) I went to the bathroom and in the midway I crossed path with this girl. I said "glad you didnt go to the wrong one today" and she smiled, laughed and said "yeah not today!"

I continued with my routine and after a while I went to her. She was doing abs with this big rubber ball so I went and said "youre not excercizing your fingers. Most girls would be at their phones. Nice"
She smiled again, I made a sign to the ball and told her "let me have this" and I sat on it just in front of her. So we were face to face. I was a bit higher tho. So she had to look up to maintain our conversation.

I mostly used a lot of eye contact, talked to her about random things. I was talking to her about the sun because sun is kinda weird these days. I asked her to come closer and she did. I took her arm (by asking gentle first) and I compared our skins color and related it to the sun talking. It was a short good conversation and she seemed receptive. I gave her the ball and went to continue my routine.

I finished and went out because I didnt want to wait for her like a creep. I was going downstairs and she was leaving too ! so we went outside the gym talked some random things and when I was walking to the left she said "I gotta go this way, see ya" and kiss in cheek.

Probably seeing her tomorrow, I dont know if Im doing the right thing but Id like to have some opinions on this. By the way, shes 18 and Im 23 and Im not sure if this means a problem.
Author:  KiwiPUA [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 12:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
You seem to be going alright so far! I think that it is important to be sure that you do not appear too needy and ensure that you show her that you are still interested. You are already past the "hard" part and you really just need to tell her that you are going to a concert (or event) and ask if she would be interested in joining you.

She is most likely keen on you! Show remain calm, confident and allow things to transition as naturally as possible!

Good luck!
Author:  meetjoeblack [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
Forget routines unless they are authentic to you and your experiences. Things that may happened or you used on your own having created the routine through your own experiences. I have a variety of things I say or have done that are awesome but, its not a necessity. Something to think about. Likely, any routine you find online or through pu has been done before. She got the bumper sticker. Something new and original is refreshing.

I feel like you did not do enough in the micro interactions you already had. Introduce yourself. Make small talk. Exit cause, working out is your main priority for being there, and the approach again the next time you see her. Get talking about what you do. Extend the olive branch.
Author:  psiconauta [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
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Forget routines unless they are authentic to you and your experiences. Things that may happened or you used on your own having created the routine through your own experiences. I have a variety of things I say or have done that are awesome but, its not a necessity. Something to think about. Likely, any routine you find online or through pu has been done before. She got the bumper sticker. Something new and original is refreshing.

I feel like you did not do enough in the micro interactions you already had. Introduce yourself. Make small talk. Exit cause, working out is your main priority for being there, and the approach again the next time you see her. Get talking about what you do. Extend the olive branch.
Hey dude, I just saw her a while ago and we talked for a bit. I asked her about art (shes a graphic designer and Im a musician) so I asked her "Do you consider yourself an artist?" and then we talked for a while. I also tried to escalate kino by showing her how do I warm up for guitar practice (grabbed her arm and do the same excercises and massages I do when warming up) She let me do it and I kept a close eye contact while touching her.

At the end, when she was going to leave , she said "hey goodbye" and I approached to her and asked if she was free today because I was taking this dog I took from the streets for a walk and Im trying to make him more social to people (he might have traumas with people because he reacts kinda weird and aggresive except with my family). So I asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said "well I gotta go and buy xmas stuff... at what time? " I told her "At 4pm" and she said "yeah, If im done with all the shopping lets go, If not Ill see you tomorrow, give me your number" . I didnt remember my number so I grabbed a piece of paper and a pen and used her shoulder as a desk and said "ok give me yours Ill call you at 3" . She gave me her number and then we said goodbye.

Right or wrong?
Author:  meetjoeblack [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 10:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
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At the end, when she was going to leave , she said "hey goodbye" and I approached to her and asked if she was free today because I was taking this dog I took from the streets for a walk and Im trying to make him more social to people (he might have traumas with people because he reacts kinda weird and aggresive except with my family). So I asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said "well I gotta go and buy xmas stuff... at what time? " I told her "At 4pm" and she said "yeah, If im done with all the shopping lets go, If not Ill see you tomorrow, give me your number" . I didnt remember my number so I grabbed a piece of paper and a pen and used her shoulder as a desk and said "ok give me yours Ill call you at 3" . She gave me her number and then we said goodbye.

Right or wrong?
That's cool. Tell me how it goes. When I see a woman, I assume I will not ever see her again so, I just take my chances with the mystery door.
Author:  psiconauta [ Wed Dec 24, 2014 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
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At the end, when she was going to leave , she said "hey goodbye" and I approached to her and asked if she was free today because I was taking this dog I took from the streets for a walk and Im trying to make him more social to people (he might have traumas with people because he reacts kinda weird and aggresive except with my family). So I asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said "well I gotta go and buy xmas stuff... at what time? " I told her "At 4pm" and she said "yeah, If im done with all the shopping lets go, If not Ill see you tomorrow, give me your number" . I didnt remember my number so I grabbed a piece of paper and a pen and used her shoulder as a desk and said "ok give me yours Ill call you at 3" . She gave me her number and then we said goodbye.

Right or wrong?
That's cool. Tell me how it goes. When I see a woman, I assume I will not ever see her again so, I just take my chances with the mystery door.
Well seems like everything is just done lol, i mean I called her and she said "well im still shopping, lets see us tomorrow".

Today I arrived late at the gym and she was leaving. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and we only talked a short time. Then she left.

So, I saw the list of the people in the gym and saw her name. Just did a search on FB and bam! she has a bf lol. I guess this means "next". I wonder why she still accepted to go out with me and gave me her number because it was obvious that I was interested.
Author:  Mr Charles [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opened the girl who got into the mens bathroom
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At the end, when she was going to leave , she said "hey goodbye" and I approached to her and asked if she was free today because I was taking this dog I took from the streets for a walk and Im trying to make him more social to people (he might have traumas with people because he reacts kinda weird and aggresive except with my family). So I asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said "well I gotta go and buy xmas stuff... at what time? " I told her "At 4pm" and she said "yeah, If im done with all the shopping lets go, If not Ill see you tomorrow, give me your number" . I didnt remember my number so I grabbed a piece of paper and a pen and used her shoulder as a desk and said "ok give me yours Ill call you at 3" . She gave me her number and then we said goodbye.

Right or wrong?
That's cool. Tell me how it goes. When I see a woman, I assume I will not ever see her again so, I just take my chances with the mystery door.
This should be a song lyric. Super cool, even if you weren't being deliberate lol
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