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| Author: | Tony321 [ Sun Nov 23, 2014 12:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Or what to say after an opener(or introduction). You know it, you are going to say an opener, direct or indirect. But what to say after that? Many guys are falling into the boring questions(interview style), if not awkward silences. |
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| Author: | Unrelenting Ambition [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 1:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
It's best to find a commonality you both can relate to and play off that. The only way to do that is ask questions. Such as, "What do like to do on your weekends." or "How do you spend your free time" Hope this helps, Unrelenting Ambition |
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| Author: | PatrickAnanda [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 11:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Quote: Or what to say after an opener(or introduction). You know it, you are going to say an opener, direct or indirect. But what to say after that? Many guys are falling into the boring questions(interview style), if not awkward silences.
Who is this "many guys" you speak of? What are these "direct or indirect" openers you are talking about?You sound inexperienced. Go out. Stop asking questions and go experiment. Most importantly, be curious! "Love is 3 quarters curiosity" - Casanova Love Mack |
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| Author: | enlightenmentdating [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 7:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
The best thing you can do after sparking attraction, is to make an observation. Look around the room and think to yourself, “What do I find interesting/funny about the environment?” A lot of the time I’ll make an observation about her, like her body language, her style, or how innocent she looks.... This will open up conversational threads, as well as show her that you are really in the moment and paying attention to her. |
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| Author: | Tony321 [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Unrelenting Ambition: those are questions for starting build rapport, aren't they? I don't think that I should ask them after opener but after the couple of minutes The_Mack: Wow, great advice. Why aren't you paying for these pieces of advice? Why are you posting them here for free? You would make a lot of money and beat all dating experts in the industry with such advice. Yes, that's the best advice, just go out, did you learn writing and reading with just trying it? Don't get me wrong, yes we have to take an action and it's the best way how to improve but you can't take an action without any knowledge, especially if you are beginner in mastering that skill. You have to know what are you actually testing before the action. btw. I don't have to give you any specific numbers, I don't have them. I can see it when I am watching others and of course myself. But maybe you are around successful guys who aren't interviewing strangers. Then I understand your reaction. enlightenmentdating: Thank you! Your answer helped me the most. So first observations around me and then starting ask questions like Unrelenting Ambition mentioned. |
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| Author: | PatrickAnanda [ Tue Nov 25, 2014 5:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Quote: Unrelenting Ambition: those are questions for starting build rapport, aren't they? I don't think that I should ask them after opener but after the couple of minutes
Best of luckThe_Mack: Wow, great advice. Why aren't you paying for these pieces of advice? Why are you posting them here for free? You would make a lot of money and beat all dating experts in the industry with such advice. Yes, that's the best advice, just go out, did you learn writing and reading with just trying it? Don't get me wrong, yes we have to take an action and it's the best way how to improve but you can't take an action without any knowledge, especially if you are beginner in mastering that skill. You have to know what are you actually testing before the action. btw. I don't have to give you any specific numbers, I don't have them. I can see it when I am watching others and of course myself. But maybe you are around successful guys who aren't interviewing strangers. Then I understand your reaction. enlightenmentdating: Thank you! Your answer helped me the most. So first observations around me and then starting ask questions like Unrelenting Ambition mentioned. Love Mack |
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| Author: | hugge [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 4:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Here is how I see it. If you find it hard to keep a conversation alive it's most often due to lack of inspiration or "state". Some reasons for being out of state can be your friends or the people in the venue. They can be boring. Game is about putting some effort behind interactions, manipulating each other (in a good way) into a better mood. And if other people's game suck, chances are they will drag you down too. So choose your venues and your friends carefully. I've been with people who didn't respond to any of my efforts. No matter how hard I tried, they refused to give anything back and have fun. Interview mode questions can be just fine, because it's not really what you say that matters. It's the vibe you are putting behind it. Google RSD Julien, he explains it very well. And finally, good game is about generosity, offering value. And this "value" is this very vibe Julien talks about, and it's the "state". It's about having fun on your own and sharing it with others. So my point is, if you don't know what to say, you are most likely not in the right mood for pickup. Try to become more playful, have fun and share the fun. |
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| Author: | ultimateman [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 1:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
Quote: Or what to say after an opener(or introduction). You know it, you are going to say an opener, direct or indirect. But what to say after that? Many guys are falling into the boring questions(interview style), if not awkward silences.
you would want to be fun and entertaining after the opener, so it doesn't feel like a damn job interview and inquisition.as posted previously, one of the coolest questions you can ask is "if you could go back in time and space, and talk to your younger self when you were 16 years old for 15 minutes only, what would you say?". it's cool because it's a fun and unusual fantasy question to ask. it's deep, because her answers might reveal her values, mistakes or good choices she's made in life. if u listen closely to her answers, it'll open the doors to many other conversation topics. need a few more conversation topics? if u have an iphone, you can download a free app here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/convers ... 63343?mt=8 check out the fantasy and crime sections. those have the most fun answers. peace. |
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| Author: | Style981 [ Sat Dec 06, 2014 3:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to hook conversation with her after the opener? |
I ve experienced this problem too. N wat i did was I started practising to continue the conversation wid my male friends. OR people who r very less talkative, i picked them n tried to carry on a conversation wid them for as long as i could (since they were less talkative i was the dominant one who had to carry on the conversation). Once u get used to carrying cnversation wid these guys, apply the same when u talk to girls. Hope that helps... |
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