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Author:  Slickwitit [ Sat Nov 22, 2014 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Something is wrong
Sup guys? I'm new to pickup. I've been doing some approaches and not getting the results I'm looking for. I'm going to share something's I've experienced and hopefully I can get some feedback.

I've got opening down. I can approach just about any set. I'm pretty good at being Mr.Social. However when I talk to a two set or three set girls seem to dish me off to the next girl saying something like " my friend here is great at those things ". Not sure what that's about but girls have told me it's because they have a boyfriend and the other one doesn't. Any thoughts on this?

I started talking to this one girl using a little bit of mystery method. She was standing talking to 2 guys and I opened the guys then switch to her and it turned out she just met them and they ended up walking away. I was talking to her for about 5 mins while the band were changing. She said it was the longest conversation she had with a guy that night so I thought I was in. The band started playing and it was really loud so I tried to take her somewhere quieter but she didn't want to go so I moved on. I don't think I've built enough rapport for her to move with me or maybe I didn't lead right. What do you guys think?

Last night I went out with a wing. We did about 5 approaches together. He doesn't study pickup like I do so he's not to in tune with the process. I was the one doing all the opening he only opened one. Only one set seemed to be single. He liked the cute one of the set but after I opened he didn't do a good job of keeping that girls attention. She kept looking at me anyway I should've just taken her but I digress. He didn't capitalize so we kept it moving. The next set he opened was a two set but they were both married. Talked to them for about 5 minutes and peaced out. I opened every set afterwards. There was a two set at another place standing by the bathroom so I opened them and he threw a neg at one the girls about the bathroom door closing on her and she got offended and took the other girl into the bathroom with her. We got blown out right there due to the neg.
The next place I opened this cute red head that ended being married but her friend wasn't. I was giving him time with her but he didn't get anything. They peaced out. The next place I opened a three set where one was married and the other two had boyfriends. I'm not sure what's going on but every target I had was either married had a boyfriend or just not my type. Are these girls lying? Is it just a shit test? And if they do have other guys in their life why are you out like single people? I don't like messing around with married women but there has to be a way to get around the boyfriend thing. Any feedback will help guys. I didn't give details about the conversation but I can if it will with feedback.

Also what can I tell my wing to help grab his targets attention better?
Author:  hugge [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Something is wrong
Here is a short answer. You usually get the boyfriend-excuse if your approach is too obvious - it is obvious that you are talking to them just because you WANT something (get laid), and you are TRYING to pick them up, thus having and AGENDA. You are acting out of selfishness. I remember that Mystery Method is quite much about hiding you agenda, which is the wrong approach to have.

RSD teaches good game. It is about OFFERING value, being GENEROUS, and NOT EXPECTING anything in return. Next time you talk to girls, try to give them a good time and have fun.
Author:  Slickwitit [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 4:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Something is wrong
Quote:
Here is a short answer. You usually get the boyfriend-excuse if your approach is too obvious - it is obvious that you are talking to them just because you WANT something (get laid), and you are TRYING to pick them up, thus having and AGENDA. You are acting out of selfishness. I remember that Mystery Method is quite much about hiding you agenda, which is the wrong approach to have.

RSD teaches good game. It is about OFFERING value, being GENEROUS, and NOT EXPECTING anything in return. Next time you talk to girls, try to give them a good time and have fun.
Been a while since I logged on but whoa that's spot on!! I really appreciate the answer man sorry I didn't respond sooner. I've seen RSD I like their stuff but I'm not to the point of plowing. Although Tyler and even Julien (especially him sad about what happened... Another topic all together) know and taught good stuff. RSD got me into this before mystery.

I'm on to other aspects when it comes to sarging many other questions in regards to that. I've been going by myself lately and it's hard to have a night without seeing a girl I know. It's not really girls I'm doing anything with. They are cool and it's good social proof to be with any girl so I rock with them.

1st time it was a girl I meet online and it just got to the place so I had to see what she was up to. She told some nonsense ( really low value girl so I didn't really care I was looking for social proof at that time). She told me to go talk to some girls I said "ok which ones?" She pointed to a 3 set on the corner of the bar. I went right over an opened. I don't remember the opener at all.

There were three girls. The one I opened which was my target said she was with two sisters. The one in the middle, celebrating her 22nd birthday, was interested in the bartender not sure why but whatever the other was an ugly hating chick. I can't stand those. But eventually the bouncer came to tell me "let the bartender do his thing" WTF??!? Super cocked blocked right lmk...

Kinda long post already but hey I can use some help texting a coworker. The site is messing with me. Any help appreciated guys.
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