Hi, just something that's been on my brain lately..
When I meet women on a night out and end up having one night stands, I perform like a trooper and stay hard for hours. Like over 2 hours even.
But when I actually have some kind of emotional connection with the woman, its not every time. Just happened with a girl I was seeing a while ago and a close girl mate I've slept with like 30 times over the past 5 years last week. My dick goes softer. Its still enough to make an impact but nowhere near its true potential lol then sometimes randomly goes soft.
Can't decide if my brain goes into over thinking mode and it distracts the other half from doing its job. Anyone else had this issue?
I read somewhere to stop masturbation all together, but then I don't want to become a loose cannon and finish fast.
I nearly slept with a close girl mate last night for the first time and my mind was in hardcore thinking whilst I was caressing her like spooning. She ended up turning away after so much and moved my hand of her leg. I was 40% sure she was game for the first 30 minutes, even moved in with the slow dry hump so she could feel me
Next day discovered she was on her period so I've put it down to that lol but fuck.... I don't want my next emotional connection sex to be shit. Please adviseeee
Peace!!