Hi, I'm new here and I have two things to talk about, and I'll try to be short. (That's what I learned here anyways.
)So, let's toss the ball around.
1)
So after initial contact via text (just one text), I would like to easy it up until I make a call and set up a date.
Do you have any suggestions on what to say?
Although this has been discussed probably gazillion times, I would like to avoid "let's rob a bank" or obvious lines.
And does the same rules apply like for IM as the SMS; like small number of texts, and to have some waiting time, like not responding exact second?
2)
Apart from this, I was wondering how to respond to rejected meet-ups? I left one conversation at that. She might have legit reasons and I asked for meeting the same day which doesn't help. Should I wait for her to contact me or not? I.E., do I look needy if I write her after being shut down?