Right on that's exactly what I am thinking, I gotta remember girls don't like the typical hey whatsup. She actually just texted me back saying nope
i am gonna wait until this evening to text her back and say something good I am not sure what yet
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| Author: | policebaton [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
Whatsup guys. I am pretty decent at game, and I will have a girl laughing and smiling during an interaction etc etc, I will get her number and then text her and she will not text back. I don't text her a bunch of times, but it seems like lately I haven't gotten any responses at all... and if I do we'll talk for a second and they will not wanna hang out or have other plans. Last night I got the "I'm at practice and I will text you after?" text when I said she could come over later, (same girl has done this before and flaked) so I said, actually I will be at the gym I will text you when I am done, and did about 30 mins after she had been done with practice saying "sup kid" and no text back. Another instance is I will text a girl and say "better go to the chugg [college bar] tomorrow punk!" and no text back. Another example Monday I got a cute girls number at the library, she seemed attracted to me, and I said "hey whatsup this is Jeremy" and no text back, so 2 days later I said "are you 21?" and no text back. Am I not causing enough excitement in my texting game? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
Quote: Am I not causing enough excitement in my texting game?
I would say you're not causing enough excitement (or building enough attraction) during your face-to-face time, before you get the number. You're succeeding at getting the numbers, but the girls seem indifferent to you afterwards. You aren't being memorable enough, or making a big enough impression in your original encounter to make her want to talk to you...The other possibility is you're waiting too long - If a week goes by before you text the girl, she's likely forgotten about you. |
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| Author: | policebaton [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
How would you say I go about causing more excitement in my face to faces? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
Better conversation? Some light kino? I don't know what you're saying to them, man... An example might help. |
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| Author: | policebaton [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
I will describe an interaction. In library, I said "excuse me can I ask you something?" "sure?" -what do you think about tinder? I just got one and I am not sure how to feel yet -haha I don't have one I look to a guy next to me and say "see dude" she says "what" -there's not cute girls on tinder, they don't need it she starts blushing and laughing as the guy joins conversation and we are all talking about tinder for a second and then I get her name on her way out after about 5 mins after the conversation has been over weeks later, yesterday, I see her in the library again. We're on the quiet floor where you can't talk pretty much at all. I whisper "hey... hey!" since she didn't get the first whisper. She looks excitedly and goes oh hey! -Whatsup sorry I forgot your name -Hey yeah It's alyssa I shake her hand and say "oh yeah I am jeremy" -haha I am surprised you remembered me -yeah I remember we talked about tinder or something haha -that's funny, I saw that other guy at a party last weekend -yeah he's really cool, I plan on playing music with him this week -cool cool so what are you up to? -oh just reading some psychology *I pull out what every body is saying and my notes* -oh awesome late night? -yep yep, I love dry psychology -me too actually -very cool -alright well I am gonna head out I will seeya later -Wait wait.... let me get your number real quick -hahaha okay *she smiles and gives me her #* -alright well I will catcha later -ok seeya Then I texted her about an hour later it was around 1:30 am, saying "hey whatsup alyssa, its jeremy"... no text back. Texted her last night but it was pretty late and I said "are you 21 yet?" and no response again... not sure if I should run damage control or just forget it |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
That's not terrible... Your first interaction sounded better than the second, though. If you could have kept that one going and THEN gotten her number that would have been leaving on more of a high point. You won't get them all, man. You have no idea what's going on in her life. She may have a boyfriend, or she may have several boyfriends, or she may have simply not been interested. I wouldn't take it personally. You've sent her 2 texts with no response now, though - I'd leave that one be. You need to be: 1) Wittier with your initial text to her. Tie back to something you discussed or make fun of her (PLAYFULLY... don't neg her). 2) Doing this with like 10 other girls too... If you had 10 of these interactions and 10 numbers, not only wouldn't you give a fuck if this one particular girl didn't reply to you, but you would also have 9 others... it's a numbers game sometimes (if you want it to be) - you have much better odds of scoring with 10 shots instead of just 1. |
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| Author: | policebaton [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
Right on that's exactly what I am thinking, I gotta remember girls don't like the typical hey whatsup. She actually just texted me back saying nope i am gonna wait until this evening to text her back and say something good I am not sure what yet
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| Author: | policebaton [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
she said "nope " that smiley face wasn't part of my comment haha
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| Author: | no-way [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 11:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
You cannot talk for 3 minutes and think you got a date It sounds to me that you are Showing no DEPTH which is very important in seduction. If that was all about the conversation. Talk about various topics, don't stay on this Tinder long. Don't just talk about general stuff (you know, discussions), show her you have a playful and mysterious side. But yet make her feel comfortable (not threatened) And you should have a better seduction! |
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| Author: | policebaton [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 5:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
No-way So how would you recommend I go about showing depth? Changing the topic and say like so what's your major blah blah ask why she likes that and just try to build some rapport? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 10:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
You might not like this answer but the problem is you're relying on making phone connections rather than instant ones. Why not take those girls on insta-dates and such? These girls see you as a fun guy but you drop the ball when taking their # when you should continue to plow right away. |
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| Author: | policebaton [ Fri Oct 03, 2014 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Texting College Game.. girls don't reply |
No that makes sense man. In the instances such as it's 1:30 am in the library on a Tuesday night it's kinda hard to go for the insta date though. Maybe saying something like "hold up actually I am on my way out here let's walk together" to our cars or something and build a bit more would have been the right move. |
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