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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 6:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
keep in mind im looking for a LTR ultimately . Ill break it up in steps. 1. got hit on by girl. got number 2. she comes out next day before i texted her. and hits on me again and ask me to her place 3. we hook up 4. she text me on third day to come over. we hook up. and spend all day. (minus two hours where she went on a date...) and night 5. she text me on the next day to come over. CLEANS my apt. we hook up and spend all day and night. tells me alot of unnattractive things. -"99 percent of guys she hooks up with she never talks to again" -she was going to hook up with this one hot guy, but he never paid for her. so they never talked again. - she was really mean in college when she would kick guys out 6. she knocks on my door the next day with presents. spends the night. 7. she text me the next night. we spend all night. wakes me up at 4 and tells me her sugar daddy is coming over at 6 to take her out all day.... 8.i freak out kinda as this was really something i didnt even know was that preveletnt. and say this is alot, im not looking to mess around some other guys back like this and am ulitimately looking for a relationshiop 9. she tells me to fuck off. 10. i give her all shit back and say fine. 11. she text me she isnt interested in my drama 12. she text me 40 minutes later to come over. we hookup 13. she kicks me out the next morning and says im a drama queen. 14. she calls me that night and says to come over. it was really nice again and she said she wanted things back like before 15. she comes over to my place the next night shit faced and is rude as shit. tells me how much she likes this other guy, makes fun of me,etc 16. i get her to leave. 17. angry the next morning i text her she is bipolar and blocked. end of story so she went from a super hot girl, treating me like a prince. like a high interest level in pleasing me. to ending the worst it has ever with a girl. im considering the fact she just wasnt stable. and it wasnt my actions at all. and the main issue here is that i ignored all the turnoff behavior.sugar daddy, childish ideas about sex, etc. just because she was treating me well and hot so where could i have done better. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 6:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: considering the fact she just wasnt stable. and it wasnt my actions at all. and the main issue here is that i ignored all the turnoff behavior.sugar daddy, childish ideas about sex, etc. just because she was treating me well and hot
You have answered your own question.Your game can't change her fucked up head that has probably been diseased since she was young. Think stripper/hooker mentality These types of girls are usually epic in the bedroom though aha , |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
It doesn't matter hoe you act or how you react, eventually she was going to flip out. Period. Sounds like she's bipolar enough to get her in bed still though. But seriously, wrap your dick with this girl, lol. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Just ride the crazy train til it runs outta steam, or she forces that ride in the taxi with the pretty flashing red and blue lights. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: It doesn't matter hoe you act or how you react, eventually she was going to flip out. Period. Sounds like she's bipolar enough to get her in bed still though.
so she is legit crazy?But seriously, wrap your dick with this girl, lol. I was wondering if the sugar daddy and all the comments i posted about sex and guys, just mean she was one of these sex and the city type of girls. and i reacted poorly due to never having met someone like that. and then when i reacted emotionally, she reacted emotionally |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 8:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: Quote: It doesn't matter hoe you act or how you react, eventually she was going to flip out. Period. Sounds like she's bipolar enough to get her in bed still though.
so she is legit crazy?But seriously, wrap your dick with this girl, lol. I was wondering if the sugar daddy and all the comments i posted about sex and guys, just mean she was one of these sex and the city type of girls. and i reacted poorly due to never having met someone like that. and then when i reacted emotionally, she reacted emotionally She's a drama queen that loves attention. As long as you don't get sucked in to her games and aren't super emotional to her bull shit you'll be able to have her as a booty call til you don't want it anymore. But if you want something serious and aren't looking for that, block her. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: Quote: Quote: It doesn't matter hoe you act or how you react, eventually she was going to flip out. Period. Sounds like she's bipolar enough to get her in bed still though.
so she is legit crazy?But seriously, wrap your dick with this girl, lol. I was wondering if the sugar daddy and all the comments i posted about sex and guys, just mean she was one of these sex and the city type of girls. and i reacted poorly due to never having met someone like that. and then when i reacted emotionally, she reacted emotionally She's a drama queen that loves attention. As long as you don't get sucked in to her games and aren't super emotional to her bull shit you'll be able to have her as a booty call til you don't want it anymore. But if you want something serious and aren't looking for that, block her. then i texted her a few hours later in a block text(stupid i know) "hey so this was alot of stuff all at once, Im pretty much not looking to just mess around while you run off with your sugar daddy every week. Im cool with being just friends, if you want to date without all that other stuff that is going on, id be up for that too" she responds fuck off then i go ok and say hope there are no hard feelings. and toss her shit back on her front door( she is my apt neighbor. literally next door) then she text me at 1130 saying she doesnt watn to deal with my drama. i didnt respond so she calls me 40 min later 3 times to come over. then all that shit happened that i posted |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 8:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Well, you could have responded better, but the advice still stands. If you just ignore her when she talks about sugar daddies and shit then you're all good. Don't become jealous etc. Accept what is being offered. Presumably which is good sex for no commitment? If you dont want that then I don't get the problem. Just ignore her. If you do want that then I'd say it's pretty obvious that you reacted badly. And she probably took that as you being judgmental. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 8:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: Well, you could have responded better, but the advice still stands.
well i didnt know if i continued hooking up for long period of time, if it would of just organically grew into something i guess
If you just ignore her when she talks about sugar daddies and shit then you're all good. Don't become jealous etc. Accept what is being offered. Presumably which is good sex for no commitment? If you dont want that then I don't get the problem. Just ignore her. If you do want that then I'd say it's pretty obvious that you reacted badly. And she probably took that as you being judgmental. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
I don't like putting down girls that I haven't met, or just in general, but from what I've read I'd question you if you really think she's girlfriend material. I'd also say I doubt from that situation that it would organically grow into something but you never know. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 4:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: I don't like putting down girls that I haven't met, or just in general, but from what I've read I'd question you if you really think she's girlfriend material.
true. i just wanted second opinions. i feel deep down i know she wasnt a good girl. laughing about kicking guys so rudely, having a sugar daddy, then how she treated me after everything
I'd also say I doubt from that situation that it would organically grow into something but you never know. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
im still pretty mentally torn over this girl. i dont think i have EVER been hung up on a girl this bad. but i am wondering if it is due to the fast rollercoaster ride and not the girl herself |
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| Author: | acetheartist [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
I don't think you fucked up. Everybody is saying leave her alone because she's crazy, but let's think about it. There is a reason behind her craziness; The source of her craziness is an emotion. Find out the emotion and find a way, using game of course, to control it. Personally, I would say she has commitment issues. For a woman like that I would pretend to be super in love with her. Say things like: since I met you, I realize that I have never really knew what it was like to really love. Or I am so happy I found you. Blah blah blah. As long as you keep that up you ain't gotta be faithful or nothing. Keep giving her those strong emotions she is addicted to and she will never leave you alone. Along with that she will most likely try to give you some drama sometimes. Stay alpha! Keep control of the situation. Let her know you don't play that shit and the door is right over there. Good luck whatever you decide to do. |
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| Author: | bravesfan22 [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 5:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Quote: I don't think you fucked up. Everybody is saying leave her alone because she's crazy, but let's think about it. There is a reason behind her craziness; The source of her craziness is an emotion. Find out the emotion and find a way, using game of course, to control it. Personally, I would say she has commitment issues. For a woman like that I would pretend to be super in love with her. Say things like: since I met you, I realize that I have never really knew what it was like to really love. Or I am so happy I found you. Blah blah blah. As long as you keep that up you ain't gotta be faithful or nothing. Keep giving her those strong emotions she is addicted to and she will never leave you alone. Along with that she will most likely try to give you some drama sometimes. Stay alpha! Keep control of the situation. Let her know you don't play that shit and the door is right over there. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
i ended up hanging out with her again. and it was cool. then we hung out a 2nd time and she started saying she never liked me and i was just someone to occupy her time.i dont know if this is because she is crazy. or because i opened up too early on and backtracked and she just views this as me being weak/desperate and decided to treat me shitty |
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| Author: | Anoni [ Thu Sep 11, 2014 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did i Fuck up with this girl? |
Honestly, she seems a disturbed person. If you're looking for a LTR you will need a stable foundation and I don't think she's very stable. I was in your situation once and no matter how painful it was I had to let go of that toxic relationship. Eventually I met the right person. My advice is to meet other people and be genuine so you can find someone that is right for you. |
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