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Author:  lowriderzzz [ Fri Aug 01, 2014 10:10 am ]
Post subject:  Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
OK maybe this is not a typical shit test, but girls like to provoke with those kind of questions.

This usually happens at some time in the comfort stage.

What of the following answers best fits the a cool replay to it.

1. Sometimes

2. Only if its worthy

3. I don't believe in Santa Clause as well as other imaginary things

4. What is that... "love" please explain. (doing role play that I don't get it)

5. I more believe in passion.

6. OK I see you want to tell that you love, but you could just say it straight.

Rate which one you liked the most.
thnx
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 12:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Your last one isn't ok, but I'd switch it a bit (the English isn't great)

1. If you're trying to tell me you love me, you should do it a little more direct.

2. There's a difference between loving somebody, and being IN LOVE

3. You're focusing on love already? You're forward! Slow down! (in a playful voice)
Author:  lowriderzzz [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 1:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Quote:
Your last one isn't ok, but I'd switch it a bit (the English isn't great)

1. If you're trying to tell me you love me, you should do it a little more direct.

2. There's a difference between loving somebody, and being IN LOVE

3. You're focusing on love already? You're forward! Slow down! (in a playful voice)

cool
Author:  DrewDating [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
instead of thinking its a shit test why not just change the subject?

you dont need to answer that at all
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Having a girl curious about your thoughts on something is often better than just stating an answer anyway.

Sometimes as they keep asking you the same question over and over again you can be flirting and kino escalating the whole time, all the way to an f-close.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
One of the lines I really liked to use when a girl asks about love or love on first sight is
if she asks if I believe in love I say, "I do now"...and I smile at her and wink at her.

This throws her off a bit, she stops focusing on the question and you create a fun
situation out of it.

I also like the guy above with the "If you want to tell me you love me you can just tell me..."
Author:  Cdharders [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
I'm confused with why you think this is a shit test. Unless you're ragging on love time after time, a chikc would never ask that. The answer is to never prompt that question. If she asks that, it means you're doing soemthing that's killing comfort.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 10:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
The best reply is "why do you ask so?"

Since she's asking so, she probably got a story wanted to tell you.
Author:  A.Male [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 10:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Yeah.. When girls give me some shit test like do you believe in love? I ask her back "Do you believe it?"
she answers, and I ask her again "why do you think that way?"
Author:  flirty40 [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 8:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
It is a great opportunity to escalate the situation to a sexual level...

you ask her, how many times has a guy asked you for sex? or how many times has a guy made clear that he would like to have sex with you? if she HB8 or + she will answer 'a lot'
then you say, that means you are a very fuckable girl. That is very important to a guy, men are attracted to fuckable girls!
Up to this point she will think what the hell does this have to with my question?
Then you say: for girls it's different, girls always ask me, is love real, do you love me, do you believe in love?
Girls are attracted to a lovable guy. I must be a loveable guy!
But it's not because i wanna fuck you that you wanna fuck me.
And it's not because you wanna love me that i wanna love you.
For the punchline:
So the question is, when i let you love me, will you let me fuck you? haha!!
Author:  lowriderzzz [ Sat Aug 30, 2014 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Quote:
It is a great opportunity to escalate the situation to a sexual level...

you ask her, how many times has a guy asked you for sex? or how many times has a guy made clear that he would like to have sex with you? if she HB8 or + she will answer 'a lot'
then you say, that means you are a very fuckable girl. That is very important to a guy, men are attracted to fuckable girls!
Up to this point she will think what the hell does this have to with my question?
Then you say: for girls it's different, girls always ask me, is love real, do you love me, do you believe in love?
Girls are attracted to a lovable guy. I must be a loveable guy!
But it's not because i wanna fuck you that you wanna fuck me.
And it's not because you wanna love me that i wanna love you.
For the punchline:
So the question is, when i let you love me, will you let me fuck you? haha!!

NIce never thought of that
Author:  neo87 [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
Jeez, you guys blow opportunities.

When a girl asks a deep question like this, it's NOT a TEST...SHE IS TRYING TO CONNECT WITH YOU. Making it easier to sleep with her. Brushing it off, answering funny is a bad strategy. Just be real. If you don't believe in love, say so and why. If you do, say so and why. Express yourself, connect with her and grab her and kiss her. Ten times more effective than playing games.
Author:  Chris101 [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 7:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
I usually like to mix honesty with some degree of humour and self-amusment when it comes to things like this. I would say "I believe it's a real concept, but I'm in no rush to settle down any time soon... unless I met my soul mate. Don't get any crazy ideas... but you have a good vibe, so you're off to a decent start".

Most important thing is HOW you respond, keeping relaxed and confident in everything you say (not "flinching"), yet keeping the interaction fun, turning things back quickly on her, pumping her emotions on some level, and keeping things moving forward. As opposed to stumbling, being conflicting in your intent (not sure how to answer), letting her take the frame, etc.
Author:  foreverthyear [ Fri Sep 26, 2014 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
I'd roll out my Freud in zipperhead mode but wouldn't have a great grasp on how to spin that into a DHV - besides I'm here looking for advice on this stuff. The stuff that comes up on google for shit tests is to just get into a mode where you aren't worried about them and organically overcome them by being you.

edit - and I hope I remember that joke in my sleep deprivation induced haze...
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Fri Sep 26, 2014 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best response to "Do you believe in love" shit test
"Love is a chemical state of the brain."
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