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Author:  TopMar [ Mon Apr 21, 2014 10:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messages?

A girl was walking in my direction (8.5/10 - was coming from a modelling photo shoot). I checked her out, passed her, turned around and immediately approached her. We chatted for 5 minutes while walking in the same direction. Conversation seemed fun as she was laughing a lot. I said "I would take your phone number but you probably have a boyfriend" she laughed and said "haha hmm kindda, I lost my phone pass me your phone I'll add myself on Facebook" (she was using her Ipod to access internet). She added me on FB and accepted my friend request on the same day.

Sent her msg #1: "hey blablabla store this new fb friend with care - Name"
Girl: Hasn't even "seen" the message

2 days later
Sent her msg # 2: "How was the rest of your adventure?"
Girl: Hasn't even "seen" the message

5 days later randomly bumped into her on the street at 11am. I was running late on another date so couldn't take her on an instant date nor talk for longer than 2 minutes. She told me that a night ago she went to a music festival and now was going on 2 easter lunches with her mom and with her 'rich grandparents'. I said have fun i gotta run, ciao we will talk later on facebook.


When should I contact her again and what should I text her?

Author:  _Bear [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

My friend, you have repeated she has not seen the messages. If you keep texting her you will creep her out.

Wait for her to come to you. Trust me.

Author:  PhoenixLimbo [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Had the same problem once with a hot Russian, studying for an MBA, maybe HB8, but from her FB profile she was aiming to be an HB9 (posting professional photographer pictures, with model type poses, looks)...

She was seeing my messages, but not replying... I was like "WTF??" why is she not replying?..
Ended up taking a last chance at a neg on her wall that did not work well lol

My best guess is that some people aim to have the max amount of people on their FB (=BIG EGO).
Also some girls like to have a box full of hot potential candidates so that they can jump from one boy to another when the need arises, and have plenty of choice, no stress.

If you don t mind being put in that box, keep flirting while you fuck other chicks, it s not much investment, apart from the fact that you should try to mirror her FB style.. (very social? lots of travel pics? friends pic? deep updates? (prob. not lol) etc)

Author:  TopMar [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Yea I can wait but it will get me no where.
Im gonna send her a text (possibly last one)

Whats better to message her?

'Just run into a girl in the mall i thought was u...but she only spoke spanish lol'

OR

"-10 points for lack of prompt reply. You losing me you got ground to make up lol"

Author:  Vlads [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Quote:
Yea I can wait but it will get me no where.
Im gonna send her a text (possibly last one)

Whats better to message her?

'Just run into a girl in the mall i thought was u...but she only spoke spanish lol'

OR

"-10 points for lack of prompt reply. You losing me you got ground to make up lol"
i just don't have words.....
what to say, she made you an idiot, lost password for my phone?!!??!
thats the reason she don't give you her number?!?
answering calls doesn't require password
she faked you already twice
only from how you approached her, i can say you have bad game, change it fast.

Author:  TopMar [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Quote:
Quote:
Yea I can wait but it will get me no where.
Im gonna send her a text (possibly last one)

Whats better to message her?

'Just run into a girl in the mall i thought was u...but she only spoke spanish lol'

OR

"-10 points for lack of prompt reply. You losing me you got ground to make up lol"
i just don't have words.....
what to say, she made you an idiot, lost password for my phone?!!??!
thats the reason she don't give you her number?!?
answering calls doesn't require password
she faked you already twice
only from how you approached her, i can say you have bad game, change it fast.
No she said she lost her phone.
Weeks ago I had no courage even to talk to a girl so don't push a car that is already going 20mph over its speed limit.

I know that I have a bad game but I didn't ask you to comment about my game I asked what to do in this particular scenario..

Author:  In$tinct [ Wed Apr 23, 2014 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Yes, you have asked and people keep telling you to not message her and you reply "what would be the best message?"

Don't... message... her...

"waiting will not get me anywhere". Well yeah if you don't game other chicks and only wait around for this one then ultimately you would be right. But why would you waste time? While waiting for this one there are plenty of other chicks to game...

Author:  breedlove465 [ Wed Apr 23, 2014 1:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Don't want to sound like a broken record, but don't message her anymore. Wait til she messages you. Sending constant messages will NEVER gain any attraction towards you.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Apr 23, 2014 2:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Why do people even ask for opinions if they just say "thanks for the opinions, but I'm gonna message her"

Don't be a bonehead. Don't message her.

Author:  Midget [ Mon May 19, 2014 7:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl add on Facebook and not reply to messag

Dude. Waiting will not get you places. We're not saying, "wait for her reply". We're saying "Put her aside and fuck other women".

Good luck. :)

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