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Author:  ctr2012 [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 9:05 am ]
Post subject:  Getting vibes of being used HELP
So I'll just jump straight to it.

gorgeous girl, i mean im usually the fussiest person and harsh with scoring but id say a 9.6! almost perfect looking.

3 dates including last one which was all day and turned into eating out in the night, gorgeous girl, no physical contact so far, always wants me to pick her up despite she has a car.

what do i do if im feeling a bit used now? my plan was to back off a bit and let her text me, maybe let her subtly know that im losing interest? How do i play this?
Author:  Tchill [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
Let her drive her car and pick you up with it. But that could be harsh. Go for a date as soon as possible. Create high value small talk in the car. Use attraction and escalate in the car. Maybe she is just in for the ride, who knows.
Author:  ctr2012 [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 1:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
So still text her? I havnt text her since yesterday afternoon...
Author:  Tchill [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 1:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
Tekst her in a push pull way and make it sexual just a bit. And do it in the car more. Tease her, make her insecure.
Author:  ctr2012 [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 1:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
can you give me an example push-pull text?
Author:  Tchill [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
Quote:
can you give me an example push-pull text?
ME: Damn it's cold tonight. I could use someone to cuddle with... You know anyone?
HB: Nope. Sure don't.
ME: That's too bad. I heard you were very warm and spoonable. Was this a lie?
HER: Nope. Lol
ME: I think you should spoon me. I could freeze tonight and die. You would never see me then =\
HER: Ha
ME: I'll even curl up in a little ball and let you be the big spoon =)... How could you say no to this?
HER: Ha ha ha
ME: Do not laugh at my serious offer to spoon me plz

ME: Ok on a serious note can I tell you a secret?
HER: Yes
ME: I feel like I can trust you. Right?
HER: Yup
ME: Ok... No I can't tell you. You'll make fun of me =(
HER: Noooo please! I wanna know!
ME: Are you sure? I'm ready to tell you. It has to be our secret though.
HER: Okay
Author:  Sly-Mike [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 5:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
3 dates and no physical contact? Dude you're in serious risk of being put in the friendzone. Get her to meet you one more time, get physical and escalate. If she gives you the LJBF speach then it's already too late. Next her.

Hope this helps.

Sly-Mike
Author:  ctr2012 [ Thu Apr 24, 2014 8:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
Quote:
Quote:
can you give me an example push-pull text?
ME: Damn it's cold tonight. I could use someone to cuddle with... You know anyone?
HB: Nope. Sure don't.
ME: That's too bad. I heard you were very warm and spoonable. Was this a lie?
HER: Nope. Lol
ME: I think you should spoon me. I could freeze tonight and die. You would never see me then =\
HER: Ha
ME: I'll even curl up in a little ball and let you be the big spoon =)... How could you say no to this?
HER: Ha ha ha
ME: Do not laugh at my serious offer to spoon me plz

ME: Ok on a serious note can I tell you a secret?
HER: Yes
ME: I feel like I can trust you. Right?
HER: Yup
ME: Ok... No I can't tell you. You'll make fun of me =(
HER: Noooo please! I wanna know!
ME: Are you sure? I'm ready to tell you. It has to be our secret though.
HER: Okay
damn these are awful! Sorry but these would not work on a 28 year old doctor! Mor like an 18 year old student...maybe....

Anyway i did what i thought and actually backed off a bit and she came to me. Had a great night ;)

Thanks for your help :)
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sat Apr 26, 2014 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
She doesn't fancy you at all IMO. Did your great night involve sex? I bet it didn't. Love how you guys hit on girls who are far better looking than you and expect them to feel the same about you. So fucking egotistical. So dude what kind of sex did you have. What happened.
Author:  BassOpens [ Wed Apr 30, 2014 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting vibes of being used HELP
I've been in the FZ many times with gorgeous girls and I've always made my way out of it big time ;) trust me, 3 dates is not too late :D

First of all: why the hell would she drive her car? I mean, not to be a macho or to fall for her bullshit but you're the man, you're in charge, you decide where to go, you decide how fast and how slow, you have to make her feel secure, comfortable, SAFE..

For her, having you drive the car means nothing but a way to feel safe herself. She likes to feel that she's being taken care of, she knows shes beautiful, many guys have told her that in the past (please do not), besides, that should tell you, my friend that she's used to being under someone elses control, meaning that you might get her to do things without much effort.

On the other hand, why would a beautiful girl spend time with a guy she's not interested in just to get free rides? I mean, dude, She's not toying you around, she's just reassuring herself that she's the lady, she has to be taken care of. That's all.

Please dude, escalate kino but not inside a car. Doing it inside a car will make you look insecure about doing it somewhere else, and although both men and women appreciate privacy and discretion, kinoing inside a car is not the way to go, specially if its the first time..

On the serious note, if you do not escalate things fast, kino, state your sexual intentions or be it: kiss close her, you will end up in the FZ.

Next time you date her, turn sexual, be unapologetical about it. Talk about sex, about kissing, be touchy, comfortable with yourself.. It's better that she turns you down now if she really doesnt see you as a potential sex partner than having to go tru 3 more dates like that (no touchy, no kino, no sexy talk, no nothing)..

MAN THE FUCK UP
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