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Author:  JustStartingOut [ Fri Mar 28, 2014 9:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
Just curious if it's alright to ever compliment HBs since when complimenting beauty etc. adds value to them when you should be adding value to yourself?

I've made this mistake before where I'll compliment them and they reply with a simple "well thank you!" I never know how to come back and reply to that other than try switching it into a neg and saying stuff like I'm softening them up since I'm looking for an easy fight or something (I'm an martial artist)

Just curious about compliments in general?
Author:  EnsoNytes [ Fri Mar 28, 2014 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
I can tell you just got done reading The Game. Lol.

As you get more experienced, you will naturally learn what you can usually say, when you can say it, and why you can say it.

The fact that you refer to women as HB's tells me you are probably immersed in Mystery Method. Mystery Method was designed as a way to pick up stuck up club bitches in Los Angeles. I'm not saying negs don't work, but the most rookie mistake is learning Mystery Method and running with it.

Yes, you can compliment a woman and still have high value. The problem that comes into complimenting is when you do it to get something in return. This is the dilemma with pick up in general. If you need something from women, then you are inherently going to be taking value. If you are a fun social guy who wants to tell a woman what you genuinely see in her, then you are giving value. Girls 100% know the difference.

Only compliment a woman if you genuinely want to compliment her. Before you compliment her, ask yourself if you would give the compliment if you knew there was a 0% chance of her sleeping with you.
Author:  JustStartingOut [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 2:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
I see what you're saying there. There's a big difference between compliments with a catch and just compliments.

The thing is timing which I usually have trouble with and what to compliment. Those are my two big things I struggle with.


Yes in actually just finished reading that hahaha
Author:  alxbkr [ Mon Apr 07, 2014 6:40 am ]
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Don't compliment her just to look for results.
Do it because you want to. If you don't want to then don't
Author:  hugge [ Fri Apr 11, 2014 2:22 pm ]
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To say it once again... Just give a compliment if you mean it, and if it feels spontaneous. If there is something eye-catching about her you probably want to comment on that (unless she's probably heard it a thousand times already that night). To give the impression that you don't want anything from her you can turn away and ignore her after your compliment. Alternatively you can show her genuine interest in whatever caught you attention - "nice hat! where did you buy it?".

If you want to go into details on how to give a compliment, my previous example was not optimal since it contains a closed question. She might answer "in a shop". End of conversation. The best way to compliment someone is as follows:

1. Say her name to get her attention and make her listen better. If she is a stranger and you don't know her name, ignore this step.

2. Give her the compliment. "Nice hat!"

3. Tell her why you like it. "I like the color!"

4. Ask her an open ended question. "Tell me about where you found it!"
Author:  Melodical [ Fri Apr 11, 2014 4:29 pm ]
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Just don't compliment them on their looks, get a book on cold reading and link some of the methods to parts of their psychology you want to reinforce through any complimenting.
Author:  jackhammer95 [ Fri Apr 11, 2014 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
Quote:
Just curious if it's alright to ever compliment HBs since when complimenting beauty etc. adds value to them when you should be adding value to yourself?

I've made this mistake before where I'll compliment them and they reply with a simple "well thank you!" I never know how to come back and reply to that other than try switching it into a neg and saying stuff like I'm softening them up since I'm looking for an easy fight or something (I'm an martial artist)

Just curious about compliments in general?
if you want to NEG her just compliment her and when she says "thank you" you just say "i was joking but you do look attractive" in a joking manner of course and then move in to introduction. works for me all the time. use it on your own risk though
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 9:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
Lol at this question, seriously? No, women hate it when men validate them and give them value... I mean, I hate it when my boss tells me I'm good at my job, just makes me feel so cheap, not totally valued and appreciated as an employee at all... :roll:

OK, serious voice now. Yes it is OK to compliment girls.

It just has to be from a place of value and not a place of neediness. If a girl smiles and just says thanks it's likely she's not interested (ie she's taken) or you didn't do it right.

Tells girls they are sexy for fuck's sake! Tell them as soon as possible, or show them as soon as possible by escalating and showing interest. A man goes for what he wants.

Example: lately girls keep asking me if Im gay, because I hold myself like a real fucking man looking to get laid (as opposed to a creeper/chode) and straight males in our society never bloody do this because they don't bloody well know how, my response "how can I be gay if I want to fuck you/find you so attractive (calibrate to the girl, this takes experience)?"

How long has this community been around for? How is this still a question that needs to be asked?
Author:  JustStartingOut [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
Well then I must be doing the whole complimenting thing completely wrong in that case. I'll try it your way..Thanks
Author:  barks100 [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
yes its ok to compliment if you want nothing in return.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 11:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it ever okay to compliment HBs?
Use compliments to reinforce positive behavior.

Examples:

1. You're the best chicken marinara cook, ever!

2. I like the way you dress. You look sophisticated and sexy. Did you get pointers from a fashion magazine or is that your own style?
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