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| Author: | temuchin [ Sun Mar 16, 2014 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I screwed it up on the first date |
Hi guys I think I threw away a big chance. I'd got a match with a HB8 on tinder last week. We started to chat and can say I played pretty well the text game. I built great attraction, she started to send me 'kiss emoticons' and she accepted to meet me at a bar. I was pretty confident, but, at the moment we met and sat down to talk I saw that she had a defensive BL. I escalated kino, I did Style's ring routine, we held hands but I was unable to reverse the situation. At a moment, I tried to kiss her and she refused, but after that, she took my hand and started to rub it. She kept her defensive BL but allowed me to keep kino escalation. We left the bar and we walked holding hands. I put my arm over her shoulder, she took my hand and kept rubbing it. So I tried to kiss her and she refused again. I put her in a cab and sent her home. Today I text her with a non-related subject and after some messages she said that "she felt sad because she didn't want to kiss me, that she wanted it to happen but, sometimes, these things are inexplicable". So I said that I realized that she was defensive during the date, and I didn't get a response, until this moment (no problem here I think. I sent the message some minutes ago through SPAM, but I know she saw it already). Matter of fact, I was able to create attraction and comfort during the text game, she went to the date willing to kiss me but I was unable to keep things on track. At a time, when I felt she lost interest, she started to ask me boring questions about my job and I couldn't bring her back to me anymore. Do you guys think there is still a chance to get her, or I should move on? Thank you all! |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Sun Mar 16, 2014 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I screwed it up on the first date |
Haha dude. This sounds exactly like my post from not too long ago. If you click on my profile and check out the last two post i made about a girl feeling uncomfortable after our date you can get some insight. Mine was pretty much exactly like yours except the girl I saw was extremely interested then went cold after the date. I say move on (which is easier said than done) to a new girl and wait for this girl to hit you back. My 2 cents |
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| Author: | temuchin [ Sun Mar 16, 2014 11:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I screwed it up on the first date |
Thanks, man At least you kissed her before things get weird... I stood in a vacuum... hahaha |
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