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Author:  KevinC [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 12:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Can't take it to the next step
When i'm at parties i usually find a girl and we start talking. After a while I lead her to the sofa and we end up kissing. Then either my friends or hers see us and gives us attention (like taking a picture or something). At this point I usually tell her "lets get some privacy" or "do you wanna go to another place". In the most situations she answers "no, i'm fine" or "why can't we stay here" or something. After the rejection we still kiss and flirt, but I've no idea what to do next. I dont wanna sit there in the living room with her all night.

What am I doing wrong?
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 1:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't take it to the next step
Get used to this pal. Girls have to say this.

Try to ignore it though, make an indirect excuse, "let's get some fresh air, we wi come right back" , "I wanna te you something, but not here, music too loud, we will come right back"

You really need to be persistent with it.

"Wanna come back to my room for sex?"

"Wanna come back to my room to watch YouTube fail videos?"

The latter will have a much better response.

I have pulled girls back to my place, even after telling me to fuck off , but be persistent.

Don't give up on her 1st refusal. This is what separates the men from the boys

You don't always get the girl, but sometimes a phone number will help a lot. So she can meet you without her friends scrutiny
Author:  KevinC [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 4:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't take it to the next step
Well, I've tried "do you want to get some alcohol" (at house parties I usually hide my alcohol in some random drawer in a bedroom). The question is what should I do after she has followed me up to the room? Should I just start making out with her, or try to sweet talk with her first?
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 4:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't take it to the next step
I usually just push them dominantly on the bed and get to it..

But if you can tell she a little hesitant perhaps stick some music on and make her feel comfortable
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't take it to the next step
Quote:
When i'm at parties i usually find a girl and we start talking. After a while I lead her to the sofa and we end up kissing. Then either my friends or hers see us and gives us attention (like taking a picture or something). At this point I usually tell her "lets get some privacy" or "do you wanna go to another place". In the most situations she answers "no, i'm fine" or "why can't we stay here" or something. After the rejection we still kiss and flirt, but I've no idea what to do next. I dont wanna sit there in the living room with her all night.

What am I doing wrong?
Dude, you're asking! That's the problem. You never ask a girl if she wants to do or go anywhere. Her answer will almost always be "No" or an objection. You must lead by assuming and having an assumption frame by assuming she's down for whatever.
Author:  jane28 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 9:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't take it to the next step
maybe she just like want to flirt with you and not ready or not really in for sex thing.

if you want you can ask her out where you can enjoy the two of you.
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