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Author:  asteris [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Facebook instead of phone number

I was in a party last saturday after metting some girls(party was kinda sausagefest, 30% females n
not all of them where atrractive) there was the barwoman very busy and also very sexy.Everyone in
the party was univercity students, like me.I went to the bar asked the barwoman for a drink and she
said she had nothing apart from wine.I asked if it was good and she gave me her glass of wine to
taste it.I understood that was a 'green sign' and i started talking n intronduced myself, but as i
said she was very busy and many people interrupted us. I told her i will see her later and she said
SOON.I went to the party with some (let's say) friends.I slightly know these people.Before i started
talking to the barwoman i danced with a girl and everyone in the party apart from me knew that this
girl that i was dancing with gets really drunk in every party and hooks up with a specific one of the
(let's say) friends i came to the party with.And she wasn't the only one who acted like this in every
party.Almost everyone knew each other in the party and a big part of them acted like the drunk girl.I
was completely stunned when i realised that.Almost everyone knew who was supposed to kiss who and
everyone had as favorite hobby to gossip.After talking to the barwoman i went to my friends and that
time they said to me about the drunk girl and everyone's behavior.I went to the toilet and when i was
back the barwoman was no longer busy at the bar but many people from the party was trying to talk to
her.I waited a minute or two and then i went to the people that she was talking to and asked her to come
with me.The party was in the basement and outside was cold for her so we sat in.We started talking
and at least 15 times people interrupted us.As we were talking to each other she was touching my knee.
Then a friend as hers came to us to ask for advice because she was facebook-chating with a man.All this
time my mind was struggling with anger (because we couldn't be alone), alcohol, a half boner created
by the tits of the barwoman's friend who was asking for advice and most important the drunk girl and
everyone's behavior and gossiping.When the big tits left i remembered i saw the barwoman talking too
much with someone and i asked if there was something between them and she said no but i understood by
the look on her face that she had a boyfriend.I was proved right because after we left the party a girl
who was in the car with me told me the barwoman has a boyfriend without me asking and she said that in
front of other three boys in the car and no one of them disagreed.When i was talkling to the barwoman i
was sitting in a bar stool next to her.She left for some moments and i moved closer to her stool and when
she came back she moved her stool a little bit far away from me.That happened after she touched my knee and
her looking straight into my eyes without talking for two seconds.Unfortunately the touching and the looking
wasn't at the same time.Touching and looking juxtaposed with my thoughts of her having a boyfriend and almost
everyone in the party knowing that and the drunk girl's and everyone's behavior and gossip.In general she
definately liked talking and spenting time with me but i think i should be more touchy to her.When i had to
leave with my friends and i hadn't kissed the barwoman yet i asked for phone number and she gave me her
facebook and unfortunately i didn't have any time to convince her to give me her number.After all this
i let two days pass in order not to facebook her too soon.My question is should i go on and facebook her
because i think in the first impression she believes that i am a man who doesn't take initiatives etc.And
because i understood she likes that kind of men i believe she gave me her facebook maybe because she wanted
to get rid of me maybe because she wasn't sure about me.If i facebook her what "style" do i have to use in
order to get things in the right order and go on with a date?

Author:  Confusedguy85 [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 4:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook instead of phone number

holy big block of text. dont know how I even read that...

ok so she has a boyfriend which sucks and she appreciated that you were "there for her" when she was dealing with too many ppl at once, so you got her interest.

Normally I would abort if a girl im PUA'ing has a bf, but maybe if she is a bit loose and you decide to chat her up on facebook try to set up a meet or ask when is she bartending so you can see her again. Just dont use fb chat to try and get to know her better. If she starts making silly excuses I would just unfriend and move on.

just my opinion.

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