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| Author: | Superman7 [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | "Put your number here" close |
I did this yestarday to this HB8 on the gym. She made it hard but all came out. My question is... what now? I kind of feel blind since is the first time I do that closing. Have anybody done this and worked out after? What would you do or what did you do (call/text what)? Appreciate any response. |
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| Author: | goundy [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
Getting her number is just part of the journey. If you just asked for the number, all you'll get is the number. If you want to see her again, then you need to explicilty state that that is the reason she is giving you her number. Prime her for the day 2 and focus mainly on trying to see her again. Ask if she wants to get coffee or a drink with you. If yes, great! If no, or no response, you'll know next time to prime her for the day 2  -goundy |
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| Author: | Superman7 [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 12:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
Yeah, I did let her know my intentions for sure. Also about being gym partners just to break her wall. What I dont know is what kind of stuff text her. I'm not good at text games. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
Here is as simple as your texts can be: Text 1: "Heyy (some comment about the gym or inside joke or whatever)" Text 2: "Let's grab a drink tonite" Done. Experiment with different text game sequences with different girls to find the way that works best for you. |
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| Author: | Superman7 [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
I don't know if this was TOO DIRECT but i guess so. I texted her: "Hey (her nickname) how you doing?" she text back: Good thanks God. And you?" ... so I texted back: "Same here, taking a break from work. I got free tonight, wanna go out and grab some coffe?"... Well, I think was bad enough. She started making excuses. So I told her that i wanted to get to know here and she just said that I already know her. What did I miss? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
You did absolutely nothing wrong. No need to do backflips. You put it out there and she didn't reply. Much better than wasting 1/2 your life on quirky AFC text messages. Invest your time in the girls who are down to meet up. Put this one on hold for a week or so and ping her again. In the meantime, go find more girls. |
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| Author: | Brantley [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:31 pm ] |
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Quote: You did absolutely nothing wrong. No need to do backflips. You put it out there and she didn't reply. Much better than wasting 1/2 your life on quirky AFC text messages. Invest your time in the girls who are down to meet up. Put this one on hold for a week or so and ping her again. In the meantime, go find more girls.
What said. Simple, man. She's just not into you. But don't let that get you down. Take away from this that you got a girl who doesn't even like you to give you her number. Good job there. You also did a good job with the text reply. Not the best. But I'd have sent it and never worried. Win or lose, it's the journey that makes the man. |
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| Author: | Superman7 [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 2:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
Thanks guys, I appreciate the advice. Now I think I just have to feel careless about those situations. Works for me. |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 5:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
Once you have enough hits and misses under your belt, you won't care. Enough misses and they cease to mean anything (especially since by then it's just simply a personality conflict and nothing you did wrong). Enough hits and you feel justified that anything worth pursuing, you will get. |
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| Author: | TheKillSwitch [ Wed Nov 27, 2013 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
I had a night in a club where I hardly ever go, so I thought I'd make the most of it. The only thing I said to girls that night was "Hey, you're cute, put your number in my phone." I walked up to about 40 girls that night. I walked out of there with 14 phone numbers. I text them all the next day. Nothing special, just something like "you looked cute last night, want to go for a drink on x-day". Got 6 replies, saw 4 of them, f-closed 2 of them. That was just due to the pure amount of girls I asked. Just ask them out in your text. A call might seem a bit too forward. With a text, they can reply in their own time and don't feel pressured. Doing this also helped big time with fear of rejection. After 10 girls in a row have just devastated you, you stop caring and it starts to become fun. So if you get nothing out of it, you at least get your fear of rejection severely dampened. |
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| Author: | goundy [ Thu Nov 28, 2013 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Put your number here" close |
After you prime a girl for a day 2 - there is no text game. Just, what are you doing on x day -goundy |
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