ok.. i understand..
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| Author: | king0s [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 4:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
I had a close female friend in my college. We both joined in the same company and were put in the same project. We became much more close as days progressed. I started doing light casual kino on her first. She was receptive. So each day i increased the level of kino and started doing overt and sexual kino on her. She was still receptive, which made me very excited and happy. It felt good, I never talked about all of this to her, I just kinoed her while i do my normal teasing, funny, adult talks. But after a few days I could feel that she started getting buyer's remorse and must have felt ASD for letting me touch her. So she started acting different and distant, and the mistake i did was i acknowledged her acting different and asked her about it. She started getting more and more bitter and now she has stopped every form of communication with me. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 5:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
You didn't escalate the situation by taking her to the bathroom for the f-close. Or by inviting her out to amplify & f-close. After a while she might have thought 'if this is all this is going to be, fuck it.' Just my read on the situation. |
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| Author: | king0s [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 6:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
sorry, i forgot to mention that after some days she stopped me and explained me that i should not behave with her in sexual ways.. and that she sees me just as a friend.. That is why i stopped.. That is why i said she had buyer's remorse.. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
Same analysis though: Too many days passed with no further escalation. |
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| Author: | guangwang1983 [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 11:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
Quote: So each day i increased the level of kino and started doing overt and sexual kino on her.
I think the problem lies with this sentence. In a cold business office environment, to me if you increase level of kino on a daily basis, it can be seen as creepy. The vibe in the office is not sexual enough and she is receptive to all the kino just being "friendly". I think the best way is to get her out and escalate outside the business environment. That is also why co-workers fuck each other on Christmas party, but light kino in the office can be seen as sexual harassment.Just my 2 cents... |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
Should have made a move as others have said. The kino was good, but then you gotta ask her out or get her alone etc. |
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| Author: | king0s [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 4:44 am ] |
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Whenever she sees me in office, she tries to avoid me.. If we see each other when there are others around, she keeps a smiling face and fake smiles at me, just to put an act around others. But otherwise she has anger in her eyes towards me. Today after a long time i had to talk to her for some office work.. i tried playfully teasing her, for which her face instantly had a rage of anger,(She must ve felt defensive for my teasing).. How long will she hold such anger towards me? |
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| Author: | General Lamb [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 8:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
Good Lord! Stop this now! You must never, NEVER do anything overtly sexual in the workplace. You risk utterly destroying your career, which should be far more important to you than a lady. I do not care whether she was receptive at first, the risk is too great for this to ever be justified. In the work environment, use conversation and eye contact to set up friendly drinks outside the workplace. It is in this environment that the magic can happen. Sadly, it does sound to me very much like this particular conquest has ended rather dismally. The best thing to do, is simply find someone else and work on your frame control. From what I observe here it appears that you likely failed on the grounds that you have a low opinion of yourself. That must change. |
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| Author: | king0s [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 12:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
ok.. i understand..
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| Author: | TheFury [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
oh man, didn't realize this is a work person ... yea, ignore my advice from before, stay away, as clearly you managed to creep this girl out. |
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| Author: | maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is this one-it-is? Any easy solution? |
oceanx is right. I would also add go pick up more girls and take them home and get horny with them. You'll be fine. |
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