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Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Hey, in a nutshell.

Caught screenshotting a snapchat, replied no X with screen shot crafty cunt

I apologised and said didn't mean to piss you off or ruin trust no x

Left it two days and tried initiating with omg (name) can you believe it? X

If no reply by tonight should I just call it a failure?
Author:  El_Mago [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 5:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
How personal was the photo she sent? If it was intimate, you fucked up. You can redeem it but it will take some work, is it worth it?
Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Not a nude/underwear shot. She's just a bit body conscious I think. I was going to tease and say my phone needed a new wallpaper. Long term game in mind so I took to say are you really that toned? Excuse to touch erogenous zones

Mate a HB10, BELIEVE me its worth it!!

Please any suggestions on what to do I need a braintrust
Author:  El_Mago [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 7:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
ok, in my opinion you ruined any sort of comeback on the photo by asking her if you pissed her off. You should have had a smart reply to that at the time. Best thing to do now is leave the incident behind you.

I would go back to square one with everything now. Build up the playfulness, attraction, comfort and trust. Hope that she thinks of the photo incident as a minor thing or that you just fucked up. If she brings it up in the future, make sure you have a reason for it, and make it a good one. Put yourself in a positive light, so she will feel you over reacted.

Don't bring up the incident to her, but don't shy away from it either. Be a man, accept your mistakes but don't cry to her feeling sorry. You thought it was a good idea, but now you're worried because you got caught. If you didn't get caught, you wouldn't care about how she felt about you taking the screenshot. Therefore, if she brings it up then explain yourself, but don't go apologising to her because you don't really mean it.
Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
I said it was because she drew a red circle showing her 'v' off planned to explain I had 6 seconds to look and just did it without thinking.

IYO does playing it off such as 'well yeah I needed a new screensaver for my phone' work? Or should I stick with the 'wtf was the red circle about?' comment.

Alllsssooo no reply to text as of yet, should I try again tommorrow oy do you think I should play aloof and wait two more days before trying again?

I'm genuinely sorry for breaking her trust though.

Cheers bro, really dumbfounded by the sitch. Appreciate the time and your efforts, god damn this one is worth it!
Author:  El_Mago [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Leave the photo behind you now, don't mention the red circles, don't mention anything about it.

Also, if she is pissed off with you, it's best not to send jokey texts to her as it might antagonise her. On one hand you want to show you won't stand for her shit (i.e. don't go grovelling to her), on the other hand you know you fucked up and she has every right to be a bit pissed at you. So send her a straight forward text to initiate contact (bearing in mind she might be genuinely upset) "Hey [insert private name based on previous conversations], I'm grabbing a coffee later at xyz, come and join me, I'm starting to forget what those cute eyes of yours look like"

Drawing up a name from previous conversations reminds her about how things were before she got pissed off. Adding a compliment reminds her of the attraction. It's very straight forward and not putting much thought into this. If you pissed her off you need to take a step back and mend that first. So the meet-up will be the time and place for adding some humour and escalating a bit, the text is just to get her to commit. By the way, don't steal that example of a text as it should really be personalised and sound like yourself. That was literally the most generic one I came up with.
Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 9:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Yeah I will, I really meant if SHE brings it up, how should I play it off?

Also one last thing! When should I try again? No answer tonight, is tomorrow too soon?
Author:  ggogowhitesox99 [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
NEXT TIME; SNAP CHAT SECRETS!!!!!
If u wait till it reaches the 1 second mark, then u screen shot it, it doesnt show up and they dont know.
no joke, try it with some friends. But either way I would own up to it. Be playfull and truthfull. 6 seconds wasnt long enough.
Author:  TRMascot [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Okay, so she got back to me replying to text I sent two days ago, wished her luck today on twitter no x on text but she ended with haha so now I know she's past it..a little...I think! Really gutted she dropped the x, so much effort haha but at lest square one isn't a failure right?

Should I wait and initiate the convo tomorrow? My gut is saying don't reply to demonstrate high value, I mean it is Friday, I should be busy right? I also don't want her to think I'm available 24/7 too so a text tomorrow morning saying something like my head hurts (implying a night out) we make a joke about sending drunk texts so will show I didn't think of her this time am I right?

Thanks for the help chiefs!!
Author:  TRMascot [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Just had an idea?

Should I reply with 'who is this? I've forgotten who you are we haven't spoke in so long?' but more playfully

ALSO
by giving her a nickname at this point will it just attach itself to the negative situation?

By explaining 'I had a date so I couldn't reply' does it DHV? And then rip on it by saying who orders salted popcorn etc? Does this put her too far in the FZ?

Thanks again! If this girl wasn't worth this hassle I would just walk away.
Author:  El_Mago [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
ok buddy, take a step back. Seems like you're about to fuck it up at square one again.

First and most importantly:
1 - don't mention the hangover.
2 - don't mention a date. (yes you will risk friend zoning her).
3 - don't point out the lack of contact by saying something 'funny' about it (it will just remind her of the reasons why)
4 - stop over-thinking everything

Ok now that bit is covered, this is what I suggest you do.

The nickname was meant to be something from before 'the incident' happened. This would be to attempt to rekindle the banter you had before it happened, without being too obvious about it. If there's nothing suitable to use, just ignore the nickname altogether. It really wasn't that important anyway.

Send her a message in the morning, saying something non-committal but interesting. Don't jump in by telling her about last night (and don't apologise for replying late). If she asks what you did last night, then you can say something that leads to her thinking you were out having fun. Don't try and be cocky, it won't work. Tell her you were out and you saw something that reminded you of her, so you wanted to say hi. Keep it simple, don't dig a hole
Author:  DboTheHero [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Quote:
I apologised and said didn't mean to piss you off or ruin trust no x
Shouldn't have apologised in my opinion. I like what you thought of with the 'I needed a new background'. Apologising over something so trivial and so quickly doesn't portray a good, confident image of yourself.
Author:  TRMascot [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PLZ HALP!! caught screenshotting snapchat
Yeah I know I was quick to apologise, too quick but learn from mistakes!

El Mago the man with a plan, okay non committal but interesting? That doesn't jump into the past...For e.g Hey (name) how did the presentation go? (Reply to her question about twitter)
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